I was born and raised in an ELCA congregation in the Northeast. I attended a Midwestern Lutheran College, during which time I really began to understand my faith and became more comfortable with my personal spirituality. Fast forward several years of bachelorhood and I am now married to a woman who grew up Baptist but is now a non-denominational/contemporary type of girl. I am most comfortable with liturgy and music, especially hymns, choirs and the organ are important to my spiritual experience. I do not feel comfortable at all with the church we go to. It's a rock concert atmosphere, there's no liturgy or tradition. The theology, though technically Presbyterian, is not in line with my understanding. It's almost like I'm not challenged enough by the pastors. It's somewhat dumbed down. Going to a more traditional church, let alone getting back to an ELCA church just doesn't seem to be in the cards as my wife feels the same way about what I prefer. We have 2 young girls and I want to get them started off on a good path. They still haven't been baptized yet. I have been struggling with this whole topic for some time and have chatted with some clergy friends. I welcome any thoughts that might make me think deeper and explore this more. Thanks!