Cool thread ... and hi Ana
I've given this account before, but thought I would copy/paste it from another thread, here into this one, as I think it's a nice example ... sorry if I take up multiple posts, and also, I believe the annoying "…" is supposed to be "...". Anyways, here's the copy paste:
Back around 2000, my wife (at the time) and I, were living and working in Washington State. We were, at that time, exploring different aspects of Christianity, and it was very much the first time both of us had ever seriously done so. Up to that point, I had lived in various countries around the world, and explored different aspects of people's beliefs and religions … I had my own, very simplified set of beliefs, but by and large "Christianity" wasn't one of the religions I explored in depth. As a child … my father was an atheist/agnostic variety, and my mother was a believer but couldn't stand religion or being told what to think, so nothing was shoved down my throat "belief" wise, and one of the freedoms I had, was the freedom to ask questions, explore anything I could (I had friends from an interesting cross section of cultures). I did explore some things as a child, but it was limited in scope concerning "Christianity". So anyways, in Washington, my wife and I dove in head first, and we started with the "ancient" varieties: Eastern Orthodox, Catholic, etc. From there we branched out into anything else we could come in contact with: Unitarians, Lutherans, Methodist varieties.
One thing we were looking for specifically, were those who claimed to have "the truth", and how that truth held up and reflected in reality. And also … we very much wanted to find a denomination that focussed on helping humanity. Serving the poor, feeding the hungry, helping the oppressed. I had lived as an expat for some time, frequently in dangerous situations … and I wasn't afraid to go to difficult third world countries and give my all. My wife had also lived in some similar situations with me, so we traveled good together, were both willing, etc. So, we weren't just looking for those who would claim to have the "truth" and whether this added up practically in reality, but we also wanted to find ways to join organizations that would put us in hotspots around the world. We were already comfortable living out of a bag, in dangerous situations, and so we thought not only would we be useful in such situations, but we could also make our affinity for that lifestyle count for others in need.
One thing lead to another, and we heard about a missionary organization, which we ended up joining. I'm going to make this part of the story short and get to the point … we ended up working, almost right away, at one of their main "bases" in Hawaii of all places. I mean, we had places like Sierra Leone in mind, the Sudan, Iraq lol … but we ended up in Hawaii.
At this time, we were still very much questioning, exploring, etc. "Willing to try." We didn't want to discount, or discredit someone or something, until we walked it ourselves. So going to Hawaii may not have been what we had in mind, but we were willing to try anything, and that's where we ended up.
Almost immediately upon arriving in Hawaii, we were confronted by a side of Christianity we had never been exposed to yet, and that was the Charismatic/Pentecostal types of individuals. This was something that, in my all life, I had never directly been exposed too. To me, it was the equivalent of something one may see on TV at 4am in the morning: televangelist preachers putting on a dramatic show to swindle people out of money. It was akin to a circus, in my mind, almost to offensive levels. I mean, it offended my intelligence, my sense of, "Do you really think I'm this gullible to by into this sensationalized show ?" as well as my desire to actually *help* people in need. Seeing people "speak in tongues" … was new to me. I had never seen anything like that before, apart from television mockery or television "snake oil". To me, it was no different than the babble of those who may were possessed in horror movies. And the running around, crying in front of others, throwing hands up in the air, constant repetitive prayers … what did ANY of that have to do with the hungry child in the Sudan ? Or the person caught up in the sex trade in Thailand ? Or the genocide taking place in the heart of Africa ? I just didn't see how any of it was relevant, and neither did my wife. And so, from almost moment one … we had almost settled on it being a mistake that we even go to Hawaii in the first place.
By only our third day there, we were seriously considering leaving and throwing in the towel. We had gone all the way there (and used up almost all our resources to do so, which wasn't really new for us … that was part of our lifestyle, but still), and we showed up, and gave it a shot … but it seemingly had nothing to do with "truth". It seemed to have to do with people's personal artistic displays or something, and their confusion about what they could agree upon. Again, we wanted to serve those in desperate need, while finding out the "truth" about God, Jesus, Christianity in general, etc.
Well, it was the third morning or so … when before my work day started (as I said, I worked for this base, literally) my boss gathered some of us who worked there together for a "prayer meeting". There was about 6-8 of us maybe ? A small group in other words. They all knew each other, I was the new person. Anyways, they began to sing songs, close their eyes, sway back and forth and pray … and some of them began to "pray in tongues". The incoherent version, where people "babble". In fact, one of them said, "We all pray in tongues in here, right ? Let's do it …" and they just went into it.
At that, I was sitting there and I was more uncomfortable than I had been in a long time. And I had been in some situations already in my life involving war zones, etc … but this, I felt foolish, like I was wasting my time. And I was angry … if THIS is what "God" was about to these people, I didn't want to waste my time doing whatever-they-were-doing. There were people in need out there, and I was interested in helping them. Not sitting around and babbling and patting each other on the back while debating who was right and wrong.
I was angry at myself, and frustrated with the situation, and with them for assuming I was going to "speak in tongues" like them. I wasn't a rube, nor easily fooled, and I certainly wasn't going to put forth effort to fake something.
I was one second away from just getting up and walking out on them all, going to find my wife and telling her, "Look, can we please just get out of this insanity ? I'm not interested in joining a cult to find the truth or help people, and I can't tell if this is a cult or just people who eat too many cocoa puffs …". I mean, it was also my own attitude. If that was the attitude I was going to have towards them, what possible benefit would I even be to THEM ? Did they really need someone who was thinking these things about them, working for them ? I didn't want to be a jerk to *them*. It just seemed like a win/win if I just left and started with that prayer meeting right there.
But then I remember thinking to myself, "If I actually am correct, that they are not anywhere near to knowing the "truth about God" and they are way off course, then I need to learn to deal with it. I need to learn to care about these people too, not just the ones starving and in pain and in need. I need to care about ALL people, including these, and so I need to adjust if I'm going to learn the truth about EVERYTHING."
And that's when one of the people in the group, looked up at me, and to my shock and surprise said this to me:
"I see a big question mark over your head. Like, a question mark. I think that God wants you to ask Him something. Almost like He's daring you to." And she said it with a smile, and then went back to closing her eyes and the rest of the group was just "talking in tongues" and singing songs and praying.
All of that, was the build-up and context for this:
After she said that, I remember thinking, "How dare her call me out, when she should already be able to clearly see that I'm not into what they are doing," … when almost immediately, I began to experience something.
I began to get extremely hot. Like, there was a fire inside of me, except that it was accompanied by something: what felt like a wind. I literally began to feel like a hot, fiery wind began to blow into me. It's hard to describe … I had felt this to some degree one time before in my life many years earlier (that's another story), but this was like that time, times 10. I could feel my own temperature rising, I was sure my face was flush, and this strong, fiery wind … it was like it was filling me. As if someone was breathing into your lungs for you, except it wasn't just your lungs that was filling with the wind, it was your entire body.
And I began to cry. I don't know why … whatever it was I was feeling, was like … effecting me physically, almost to an overwhelming state … and my response was to cry, from the overwhelming effect it was having on my body.
I tried to stop it, to focus, and I began to wonder, "What the bleep is happening to me ?" but I couldn't control it, or stop it. It didn't feel "bad" to me … I wasn't in pain, I was just overwhelmed, and the fiery wind … it was unique.
I couldn't believe I was sitting there crying, going through this all of a sudden … and that's when I heard the following:
My mind began to pick up a voice. It wasn't the same as when you "tall to yourself" in your own mind, nor was it with audible ears. It was more like an in-between … not in the place where one focusses mentally and can have a conversation with themselves lol, but "outside of it" And the voice said, in a friendly manner, "Ask me something. Anything, just go ahead and ask me …" and I could very clearly tell that it was … almost jovial.
This voice became clearer and clearer, and my mind cleared out almost with a clarity one gets similar to when they're "in the zone". And the voice kept saying it, over and over.
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