stevevw
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My selective memory. All I am doing is looking at the facts gained from the studies. I just linked several independent articles that all say NDE'ers meet more deceased relatives than those still alive. Its not being selective as they are looking at all cases of NDE which includes those that do not meet deceased relatives. There are no other cases to select from for me to be selective.That's not what I mean by 'selective memories'... I'm talking about your selective memories, and the tendency of proponents of NDE's to focus only on those cases that fit their narrative. So you reach the erroneous conclusion that a disproportionate number of NDE's involve meeting deceased loved ones rather than living ones, but studies show that this simply isn't true. The fact is that a very, very, very small proportion of people who suffer cardiac arrest are ever going to experience talking to dead loved ones. It just doesn't happen as often as you seem to think it does. It's just that what does happen is that people tend to talk about them more, hence they seem prevalent, when they're actually not.
You say a very small number of people who have cardiac arrests meet deceased loved ones. I am not sure what you mean. Not everyone who has a cardiac arrest has a NDE and not every NDE is from a cardiac arrest. The fact is of those that meet the criteria for NDE most meet deceased loved ones.
To even be included cases must meet the criteria for NDE which means their cortex has flat lined (where consciousness resides), have fixed and dilated pupils and no gag reflex.
So it doesn't really matter whether its meeting living or deceased loved ones during a NDE as this would seem impossible under such circumstances as a brain with no activity in the conscious regions should not have any conscious thoughts full stop.
Dr Parnia explains, “death is not a specific moment. It is a process that begins when the heart stops beating, the lungs stop working and the brain ceases functioning – a medical condition termed cardiac arrest, which from a biological viewpoint is synonymous with clinical death.
One case was validated and timed using auditory stimuli during cardiac arrest. Dr Parnia concluded: “This is significant, since it has often been assumed that experiences in relation to death are likely hallucinations or illusions, occurring either before the heart stops or after the heart has been successfully restarted, but not an experience corresponding with ‘real’ events when the heart isn’t beating. In this case, consciousness and awareness appeared to occur during a three-minute period when there was no heartbeat.
This is paradoxical, since the brain typically ceases functioning within 20-30 seconds of the heart stopping and doesn’t resume again until the heart has been restarted. Furthermore, the detailed recollections of visual awareness in this case were consistent with verified events.
World's largest near death experiences study | University of Southampton
No I was referring to the Near Death Experience Research Foundation which has been a world wide ongoing study. So it has many more clients and experiences to draw upon from all around the world.I hope that you're not referring to AWARE I or AWARE II, because for all of it's years of effort AWARE I found absolutely no cases of someone meeting a deceased loved one. Zero
Then after more years of study AWARE II found... you guessed it... zero cases of someone meeting a deceased loved one.
But I have also linked support from the AWARE study which states that the majority of NDE involved deceased relatives. The lead scientists Dr Parnia also mentions this.
Evidence from AWARE and other studies, he says, raises the possibility that the mind or consciousness — the psyche, the “self,” the thing that “makes me Sam” and that makes us uniquely who we are — may not originate in the brain and may be a separate, undiscovered scientific entity, similar in nature to the electromagnetic waves that can carry sound and pictures.
So he's going one better. He says that the evidence from AWARE suggests the possibility of consciousness existing outside the physical brain. He also makes this claim from the findings about mostly meeting deceased relatives
The stories of “experiencers” share strikingly similar features: a sensation of feeling peaceful and joyous and an absence of pain; a warm, welcoming light that draws people, sometimes through a tunnel; being greeted by apparitions of deceased relatives, or a “being of light,” a panoramic review of key moments of one’s life.
Of the similar features he mentions being greeted by apparitions of deceased relatives. He doesn't mention meeting living relatives as a strikingly similar feature but rather meeting deceased relatives. So why would the lead scientist say that if none of the NDE'ers met deceased relatives.
Heres one example of a child meeting their grandma during a NDE from the study
“When I died, I saw a bright lamp,” the boy told Parnia during a play session. “Grandma came to meet me and said I was going to be okay.”
https://nationalpost.com/news/canada/life-after-life-does-consciousness-continue-after-our-brain-dies
So the kid must have been coached to say this. Its all a conspiracy.
I don't know how you can say that. The main evdience for consciousness is personal experiences. Its the only way we can know conscious experience. So dismissing the conscious experiences of people having NDE is dismissing the only evidence we can work out what is going on. There is no physical test to find these experiences in the physical brain. An electrical pulse does not contain exhileration or transcendent experiences in it.But what you're probably referring to is this 'study'.
Evidence of the Afterlife
Unfortunately this wasn't actually a study at all, it was simply someone gathering together a bunch of anecdotal stories and then using them to draw a number of totally illegitimate conclusions.
IT'S WORTHLESS!!!!
So what this study has done has gathered personal experiences from all around the world, 1,000's of them and then correlated it all to draw out certain common aspects. That is what science does. It gathers the data and then draws out what is being agreed upon as happening. So they have found certain common experiences such as traveling to some other dimension, seeing a light and meeting deceased relatives or some god like being, having life reviews, feelings of peace, lacking fear of death and OBE ect.
So I'm not sure your in a position to say that these experiences are worthless. To the NDE'er they are real, more real than daily experience. So real that its the most profound thing that has ever happened to the. So at the very least we have to say what they are describing was something they really experienced and they were not making it up. Of course skeptics will have to conclude that its being made up. That the person is deluded. They cannot bare that it could be true.
I actually linked an article from the same author that mentions most NDE'ers met deceased relatives.Easily countered with the following which suggests that meeting living loved ones is far more common than meeting deceased ones.
NEAR-DEATH EXPERIENCES WITH REPORTS OF MEETING DECEASED PEOPLE
The Kelly study found that 95 percent of the deceased individuals encountered were relatives, while only 5 percent were friends or acquaintances. Only 4 percent of the NDErs in the study met beings who were alive at the time of the NDE. Other studies have shown that in dreams or hallucinations, the beings encountered are much more likely to be people who are still living.
http://www.evreninsirlari.net/dosyalar/145_s04_02.pdf
I am not sure if your article is referring to the same one. But even your article mentions something similar.
Most people who have such an experience during an NDE are convinced that they have been in the presence of a deceased loved one whose consciousness has apparently survived physical death in some form capable of being experienced or perceived by a still-living person.
A total of 129 identified deceased people were reported as having been encountered during these NDEs. Of these, 68 ( 53% ) were male and 61 ( 47% ) were female. Most were relatives; only ( 5% ) were friends or acquaintances.
But unlike mental disorders, hallucinations, imaginations or delusions it seems most that qualify as NDE are coherent, clear and realistic to the person. They don't have the hallmarks of delusions. In fact brain readings show they align with real life experiences and memories rather than imaginations.Now this conclusion I'll grant you. Some small proportion of people who suffer a life threatening episode will experience a very vivid and realistic life altering psychological event. But I've never seen any evidence that these events aren't simply part of the natural process of dying. How realistic, or life altering a dying person perceives them to be is irrelevant. To a schizophrenic person the voices in their head may be real and life altering as well, but that doesn't mean that they exist anywhere other than in their own head.
How vivid and life altering a psychological event may be doesn't make it real, no matter how fervently you want it to.
“Reality” of near-death-experience memories: evidence from a psychodynamic and electrophysiological integrated study
Findings showed that NDE memories were similar to real memories in terms of detail richness, self-referential, and emotional information. Moreover, NDE memories were significantly different from memories of imagined events. It is notable that the EEG pattern of correlations for NDE memory recall differed from the pattern for memories of imagined events.
“Reality” of near-death-experience memories: evidence from a psychodynamic and electrophysiological integrated study
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