To recap, my wheelchair bound, and mentally disturbed, sister in another state slapped someone in her H.U.D. apartment building because of his obscene and menacing remarks to her. Of course she should’ve just reported the behavior, but she often acts irrationally.
The management there decided to evict her. She’s going to court on the 24th to fight that.
She doesn’t save money. For example she spent all of her stimulus checks on things that were not at all necessary and was hinting around to see if I had any stimulus money to give her of my own. She does have a social worker who is trying to help, and gets a lot of help for physical needs through Medicare and Medicaid.
But I don’t think those would help her with moving expenses and a security deposit.
I am at a loss as to what to do, if anything, to help her. She is so incredibly verbally abusive. For example she has told me that our mother should have aborted me, and recently said that she hoped my daughter would die.
Because of her abuse there’s really no family or anyone to help her if she needs it. I can’t afford to take her on as a dependent. I figure even if I do give her some financial help that it will be just pouring good money after bad, since her antics and hostility seem to increase more and more overtime to people in general and seem possibly to likely just cause her similar problems in the future.
No doubt she is concerned about becoming homeless.
I have been praying for things to go well for her in court. I have been praying to know what, if anything to do to help her. Basically, honestly, I really don’t want anything to do with her anymore.
It seems I have nothing to offer her. She really doesn’t want love or a true family relationship. Though she would be very happy to take any money! She just wants to use and abuse and make excuses for all of it.
I know she has a sickness, in fact a sickness like my mothers who is now deceased. Again, I don’t know what, if anything, to do for her. And I haven’t heard from the Lord about this in response to my queries.
She has had periodic bouts of suicidal feelings since a young adult. Since this is the most challenging time of her life, I am concerned about that too. She has darkly hinted that she might do something like that.
Please pray for me to know what, if anything, to do.
Oh, and one other thing, which I know animal lovers won’t think is trivial. Whatever happens, I pray, and ask you to pray too please, that her years- long rescue cat, Cammie, will not wind up out on the streets or any place bad.
Sorry this is so long!