Further request for handicapped sister, and for me.

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You might consider talking to her social worker or a social worker to find options, solutions for her that haven't been given yet. Often they are not fully informed and need to be enlightened of the whole situation
.new eyes,etc.
 
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If my sister were not so hostile and so anxious to be dependent on, and use, other people, I would take your suggestion.

Actually, anyway she does have a social worker and she has been in the system for about 20 years and so knows how things work. I don’t think she would even need my help or advice.

Also I put my sister on block so that I can avoid her games, insults, and general abuse. For how long I don’t know. So really we are not in communication. I did leave a message with her neighbor to tell her that if she went into something like assisted-living and could not take her cat, that I would take the cat.

But I really appreciate your concern.
 
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If my sister were not so hostile and so anxious to be dependent on, and use, other people, I would take your suggestion.

Actually, anyway she does have a social worker and she has been in the system for about 20 years and so knows how things work. I don’t think she would even need my help or advice.

Also I put my sister on block so that I can avoid her games, insults, and general abuse. For how long I don’t know. So really we are not in communication. I did leave a message with her neighbor to tell her that if she went into something like assisted-living and could not take her cat, that I would take the cat.

But I really appreciate your concern.

I'm so sorry. I will prayer for wisdom/discernment/comfort in this time. Bless you Lorica
 
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If my sister were not so hostile and so anxious to be dependent on, and use, other people, I would take your suggestion.

Actually, anyway she does have a social worker and she has been in the system for about 20 years and so knows how things work. I don’t think she would even need my help or advice.

Also I put my sister on block so that I can avoid her games, insults, and general abuse. For how long I don’t know. So really we are not in communication. I did leave a message with her neighbor to tell her that if she went into something like assisted-living and could not take her cat, that I would take the cat.

But I really appreciate your concern.
That is so sweet of you to offer to take her cat. Having several
Cats myself I am sure that is a great concern for her.
God bless you!:)
 
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I have a cat, too, and love animals. Way off topic but I believe good little pets go to Heaven. One of my favorite examples is from Dean Braxton, seen on CBN with his emergency care doctor. He had no heart beat and no respiration for 1 3/4 hours and yet came back and is totally healthy now. His report on Heaven, in his book and elsewhere on You Tube, included seeing former pets and all kinds of animals there, especially horses.

For skeptics (as he was before he died) he provides Biblical proof. We see Messiah coming back on a white horse. In Revelation we also see a flying eagle sending out a verbal message in Heaven. In the Bible in Hebrew we are told that zoon worship before the Throne. Zoon means beasts.

Love your cat's ears!
 
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I have a cat, too, and love animals. Way off topic but I believe good little pets go to Heaven. One of my favorite examples is from Dean Braxton, seen on CBN with his emergency care doctor. He had no heart beat and no respiration for 1 3/4 hours and yet came back and is totally healthy now. His report on Heaven, in his book and elsewhere on You Tube, included seeing former pets and all kinds of animals there, especially horses.

For skeptics (as he was before he died) he provides Biblical proof. We see Messiah coming back on a white horse. In Revelation we also see a flying eagle sending out a verbal message in Heaven. In the Bible in Hebrew we are told that zoon worship before the Throne. Zoon means beasts.

Love your cat's ears!
Lion lies down with the lamb.
Thank you about my cat. That's why I chose him. The hair coming out of his ears maybe a trait I think. I love it. I was fortunate to have a short time with him. He was feral but when he was fixed that gave me a chance to tame him but he has some unbearable habits so I had to put him outside. I am hoping he will lose them and I can bring him back in.:)
 
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Lion lies down with the lamb.
Thank you about my cat. That's why I chose him. The hair coming out of his ears maybe a trait I think. I love it. I was fortunate to have a short time with him. He was feral but when he was fixed that gave me a chance to tame him but he has some unbearable habits so I had to put him outside. I am hoping he will lose them and I can bring him back in.:)
Maybe being feral he really likes the outdoors. You have been very patient.

My cat was a rescue cat and I don’t know it’s history but the way it has menaced my birds, like none of my past cats, makes me think it used to be wild at one time.

Cats are stubborn little critters.
 
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He was only a few months old when I brought him in. I feed the strays, etc and they become mine and all their babies.
You could be right but I've brought other babies in that were Ill and I needed to treat them and they didn't claw my walls. He actually tore up my door frame but the biggest reason is he licked and scratched 24 7. Drove me crazy. Something was coming off of him that got all over where ever he was at. Grainy minute, I couldn't even see it but I could feel it. It was every, ick
It wasn't litter or flea eggs. I am going to try and find some allergy relief for him
Thanks for listening and I am sorry it is off topic.
 
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Thank you. I am actually a very impatient person I am sorry to say.
I hope things will be resolved soon for both of you. You will be in God's and my mind's:)
I am going to start a pet thread just in case,lol.
Thank you for the prayers I need a lot of them lol
 
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Well I have prayed for you and yours for holy angels to surround you and for the Holy Spirit to guide you.
Thanks for ministering to me when you are in need. Hope your Sabbath was a blessing.
Don't feel guilty for the steps you have to take to protect yourself with your sister. It may be a wake-up call for her and a blessing for all concerned. I hope so.
Blessings
 
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Thanks for your kind words. I’m actually not feeling guilty, but your words will help if I start to feel so.

The thing is I just haven’t heard anything from ABBA as to what, if anything, I should do, so since he is always correcting me, I feel there is nothing for me to do.
Hope that makes sense.

Pat your kitty for me and have a great week.
 
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To recap, my wheelchair bound, and mentally disturbed, sister in another state slapped someone in her H.U.D. apartment building because of his obscene and menacing remarks to her. Of course she should’ve just reported the behavior, but she often acts irrationally.

The management there decided to evict her. She’s going to court on the 24th to fight that.

She doesn’t save money. For example she spent all of her stimulus checks on things that were not at all necessary and was hinting around to see if I had any stimulus money to give her of my own. She does have a social worker who is trying to help, and gets a lot of help for physical needs through Medicare and Medicaid.
But I don’t think those would help her with moving expenses and a security deposit.

I am at a loss as to what to do, if anything, to help her. She is so incredibly verbally abusive. For example she has told me that our mother should have aborted me, and recently said that she hoped my daughter would die.

Because of her abuse there’s really no family or anyone to help her if she needs it. I can’t afford to take her on as a dependent. I figure even if I do give her some financial help that it will be just pouring good money after bad, since her antics and hostility seem to increase more and more overtime to people in general and seem possibly to likely just cause her similar problems in the future.

No doubt she is concerned about becoming homeless.

I have been praying for things to go well for her in court. I have been praying to know what, if anything to do to help her. Basically, honestly, I really don’t want anything to do with her anymore.

It seems I have nothing to offer her. She really doesn’t want love or a true family relationship. Though she would be very happy to take any money! She just wants to use and abuse and make excuses for all of it.

I know she has a sickness, in fact a sickness like my mothers who is now deceased. Again, I don’t know what, if anything, to do for her. And I haven’t heard from the Lord about this in response to my queries.

She has had periodic bouts of suicidal feelings since a young adult. Since this is the most challenging time of her life, I am concerned about that too. She has darkly hinted that she might do something like that.

Please pray for me to know what, if anything, to do.

Oh, and one other thing, which I know animal lovers won’t think is trivial. Whatever happens, I pray, and ask you to pray too please, that her years- long rescue cat, Cammie, will not wind up out on the streets or any place bad.

Sorry this is so long!

Jesus please give @LoricaLady wisdom like you gave Solomon to know what to do with her sister, and how to respond to the situation she is in. Help her to not feel pressured to give if she cannot afford to, but multiply like bread the help that she does provide for her sister. Also shield @LoricaLady from any bad or negative comments. In Jesus Name I pray, Amen!
 
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Nothing has changed between my sister and me as we are currently not in contact.

I did hear from her neighbor that her court appearance last month led to a six months to one year wait from the legal system for her case to be decided.

Thanks for asking. I have so appreciated all the prayers on this string.
 
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