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[bèlla]

You must have a blog or a facebook page.
I notice you said in elementary you did a little acting/production/drama did this carry on, into your computer work.

Yes to both. My early experiences had a significant impact on my life and work. Nearly all my activities relate to my calling or developed skills that would aid me in its accomplishment.

I began writing publicly with consistency through private mailing lists, forums, chat rooms and journaling for my partners. I was accustomed to having my opinions scrutinized and learned how to convey my thoughts for this medium. I didn’t expect to take this road.

I’m exploring the possibility of documenting my time away. Providing a behind the scenes look into the world of fashion. And using my position to encourage and inspire others. Especially women. Motivational speaking is on the horizon and similar projects along those lines.

That’s why I’m single.

But in all seriousness, that degree of scrutiny and diminishing privacy isn’t for everyone. They have to be comfortable being in the public eye. But they can’t crave celebrity. This is a holy mission. God gets the glory.

It has been helpful in locating art supplies, as i am in a location where they are just not available.

Absolutely. I’ve discovered a lot through the Internet and made wonderful connections. Its been a blessing.

I was, kind of like, when i was doing something i wanted to be left alone. My mom is (still) very nosy she wants to know what i am doing etc..And i am a quite type so she would have to drag it out of me. She would ask a 1000 questions.

If I was a child right now she’d be a Pinterest mom. Totally. Making things and taking pictures. She’d probably have a food blog. That’s how she expresses her love and care. Through acts of service.

I try to maintain a flow state when I work and that requires minimal distractions. But I accommodate my loved ones because they’re older. Sometimes that means calling earlier and moving a task to touch base. Weekends are an option (sorta). Being available is important. I don’t drop everything all the time. But when I can I will.

Like making the course, i would have been getting all this stuff in and she would be wanting to know whats going on. I would have just said i am making something, then the questions would keep coming.

I don’t mind that. I keep them abreast of what I’m doing. Even if they don’t understand it all. By sharing, they’re included. We celebrate God’s faithfulness and blessings together.

But i had an idyllic childhood growing up no worries. Our vacation each year was in Destin/Ft Walton i looked forward to that trip, more that i would have christmas.

What did you do there?

Did you ever get to visit her in New Orleans, if you did, did she ever treat you to any crawdads.

I wasn’t raised in the south. She lives here. Mother is allergic to shellfish. But I’ve been assured she belongs to us.

I make creole food. Crawfish is very good. My grandmother would prepare gumbo at Christmas (on my request) and had the seafood flown in from NOLA. I’m not that particular.

Well dirty is part of the art life (well at least the way i work at art), Not muddy type dirty, but as i type this i have paint (that has dried) on my hands.

Understandable. Fashion is a different kind of art.

So you would not work in a garden.

On occasion. But I’d outsource the work. That isn’t a task I need to do. My time is better spent on other pursuits. That’s the whole idea behind lifestyle design. Balance is a necessity. You can do a lot but not all at once. You have to account for pauses so you won’t burn out.

It is in vain that you rise up early and go late to rest, eating the bread of anxious toil; for he gives to his beloved sleep. —Psalm 127:2

I take those words to heart. I’m not a fan of busyness for the sake of doing.

You can see the lake form you home, that must be a nice view. I have always like water especially when we went to Florida for summer vacation each year, a lot of good times in the past. I would not trade my childhood for, anyone else's, childhood.

It is. Water is calming. I’ll always live near it God-willing. I had an enjoyable childhood. I’m glad I wasn’t born later. That was the last era of manners and courtesy.

~Bella

 

[bèlla]

Here is one more, another wood puzzle.

That’s really nice. I bet they enjoyed it.

If I could lock my woodworking instructor away for a year I’d have a lot of projects. But his wife might object. What I really need is a developer with a crew or a Chip (from Fixer Upper). I’d be in seventh heaven.

~Bella

 

[sunshineforJesus]

Are the study’s with your church or online groups?

They are studys hosted by a friend of mine.

You’ll have a full house soon. They’re a lot of fun.

Oh these babys are alot of fun.I just hope the big hens dont end up hurting them.
My mom told me the other day her and my dad let them out to run around with the hens,and those mean hens actually bit some feathers off of their back.
~Bella

 

[bèlla]

My mom told me the other day her and my dad let them out to run around with the hens,and those mean hens actually bit some feathers off of their back.

They can be holy terrors. I’ve never had chickens and didn’t spend much time with the ones on the farm. But I’ve read a lot of personal accounts of farmers and homesteaders. I hope the chicks fare well.

~Bella

 

[sunshineforJesus]

thanks so much.

 

[d taylor]

Yes to both. My early experiences had a significant impact on my life and work. Nearly all my activities relate to my calling or developed skills that would aid me in its accomplishment.

I began writing publicly with consistency through private mailing lists, forums, chat rooms and journaling for my partners. I was accustomed to having my opinions scrutinized and learned how to convey my thoughts for this medium. I didn’t expect to take this road.

I’m exploring the possibility of documenting my time away. Providing a behind the scenes look into the world of fashion. And using my position to encourage and inspire others. Especially women. Motivational speaking is on the horizon and similar projects along those lines.

That’s why I’m single.

But in all seriousness, that degree of scrutiny and diminishing privacy isn’t for everyone. They have to be comfortable being in the public eye. But they can’t crave celebrity. This is a holy mission. God gets the glory.



Absolutely. I’ve discovered a lot through the Internet and made wonderful connections. Its been a blessing.



If I was a child right now she’d be a Pinterest mom. Totally. Making things and taking pictures. She’d probably have a food blog. That’s how she expresses her love and care. Through acts of service.

I try to maintain a flow state when I work and that requires minimal distractions. But I accommodate my loved ones because they’re older. Sometimes that means calling earlier and moving a task to touch base. Weekends are an option (sorta). Being available is important. I don’t drop everything all the time. But when I can I will.



I don’t mind that. I keep them abreast of what I’m doing. Even if they don’t understand it all. By sharing, they’re included. We celebrate God’s faithfulness and blessings together.



What did you do there?



I wasn’t raised in the south. She lives here. Mother is allergic to shellfish. But I’ve been assured she belongs to us.

I make creole food. Crawfish is very good. My grandmother would prepare gumbo at Christmas (on my request) and had the seafood flown in from NOLA. I’m not that particular.



Understandable. Fashion is a different kind of art.



On occasion. But I’d outsource the work. That isn’t a task I need to do. My time is better spent on other pursuits. That’s the whole idea behind lifestyle design. Balance is a necessity. You can do a lot but not all at once. You have to account for pauses so you won’t burn out.

It is in vain that you rise up early and go late to rest, eating the bread of anxious toil; for he gives to his beloved sleep. —Psalm 127:2

I take those words to heart. I’m not a fan of busyness for the sake of doing.



It is. Water is calming. I’ll always live near it God-willing. I had an enjoyable childhood. I’m glad I wasn’t born later. That was the last era of manners and courtesy.

~Bella

So it sounds like you are on the computer most all day.

Our vacation trip to Florida, is kind of hard to explain how special that was. Back in the 1970's just basically the simplicity of everything. All we did was go to a small little motel for a week. It was right on the beach and we always went with another family, they had a daughter my age (we were both only children) and my dads sister and her husband came from Georgia.

So we were kind of like brother and sister our family's spent a lot of time together. The smell of the salt air from the gulf to the squeaking of the sand when running.
I spent all day out in the water just looking of shells, trying to catch fish, on and on. But Florida has change so much (i have not been there in years 20+) growth has killed the charm.

Right i knew you were not in the south, but i thought your grandmother was in New Orleans. But i think i see now that your grandmother was from New Orleans and was living up where you live. I guess that is correct.

We are different in that aspect, were as you would have someone do that for you. I would not want someone doing that for me. When i get the idea, i like to actually work on what i have envisioned, so i know i will get what i want. I am a melancholic personality, so unless i see someone as really excellent at their craft i would not want to fool with them. Like when i was about 18 or 19 years old i walked out of the barber shop and said i can do that (cut hair) and so i have never been back in a barber shop again. I have been cutting my hair for years now (since i was 19 or so). If i could have, i would have done my own bicep tendon surgery.

 

[d taylor]

That’s really nice. I bet they enjoyed it.

If I could lock my woodworking instructor away for a year I’d have a lot of projects. But his wife might object. What I really need is a developer with a crew or a Chip (from Fixer Upper). I’d be in seventh heaven.

~Bella

Kids now a day all they want to do is have you show them how to do it do, very few like to sit down and figure out the puzzles. They would go to the computer and look up the solution.

You threw me off for a minute, i trying to figure out what a chip was. I was thinking of something to do with a computer and how does that do wood work.

But i see chip is some fellow from the internet/show

So you must get the idea and your instructor would make it.

 

[bèlla]

So it sounds like you are on the computer most all day.

Not at all. There are periods when I'm required to use a computer/tablet for work or meetings. But most of my activities happen outside the digital space. I'm a diehard skimmer. I preserve my energy for intentional consumption like books, educational programs, etc. For a site like this, my posts take no time to compose. I'm writing as I type. And I type fast (70wpm).

But Florida has change so much (i have not been there in years 20+) growth has killed the charm.

There are charming spots like that on the east coast. Especially New England.

Right i knew you were not in the south, but i thought your grandmother was in New Orleans. But i think i see now that your grandmother was from New Orleans and was living up where you live. I guess that is correct.

My mother was born and raised in NOLA for a time. They moved here later on.

We are different in that aspect, were as you would have someone do that for you. I would not want someone doing that for me.

I don't have the time. I'm running a business, returning to school and preparing to launch a brand when I'm done. I have to design collections and deal with production and clients. In addition to what I'm currently doing and launch future initiatives. As overseer, I have to distribute my time wisely. I don't have to put my hands on everything. I communicate my desires and have the expert execute my wishes. Delegation is a must.

This is a consequence of ownership. I have practical and social responsibilities which come with the position. I won't enjoy the garden any less because I didn't plant every item.

When i get the idea, i like to actually work on what i have envisioned, so i know i will get what i want. I am a melancholic personality, so unless i see someone as really excellent at their craft i would not want to fool with them. Like when i was about 18 or 19 years old i walked out of the barber shop and said i can do that (cut hair) and so i have never been back in a barber shop again. I have been cutting my hair for years now (since i was 19 or so). If i could have, i would have done my own bicep tendon surgery.

I recall a comment made by former President Bush (W). Someone asked how he handled the things he didn't know. He responded that wasn't his job to know everything. It was theirs (pointing to his cabinet). In other words, they fill in the knowledge gaps.

In like fashion, that's how I feel about getting things done. I don't micromanage or put my hand in every cookie jar. That's ineffective leadership (for my position) and beastly to deal with. I'd run myself ragged.

You mentioned Martha Stewart and that's the uncomfortable reality many encountered who wanted to emulate her life. She wasn't doing it all on her own. Much like the lady of the house, she was the visionary. When people attempted to do the same without assistance, they discovered the unspoken element of her mystique. She has help.

So did the woman in Proverbs 31.

~Bella

 

[bèlla]

Kids now a day all they want to do is have you show them how to do it do, very few like to sit down and figure out the puzzles. They would go to the computer and look up the solution.

Problem solving is an important skill. We'd do puzzles and Mensa-like activities to stretch our minds.

You threw me off for a minute, i trying to figure out what a chip was. I was thinking of something to do with a computer and how does that do wood work.

But i see chip is some fellow from the internet/show

So you must get the idea and your instructor would make it.

Chip and Joanna are a Christian couple with a successful home improvement show on HGTV. They discovered her through her blog. She's an interior designer. Her husband started flipping houses in college. They work together.

I would design the piece or create the concept. He'd bring it to life. I worked on my table for the sake of learning. But I wouldn't do the same with every project. I'm hands-on with sewing and patternmaking. I require the expertise for future endeavors.

~Bella

 

[ReesePiece23]

The most prolific is 3:33,

Look at the time...

 

[Ronit]

Yes to both. My early experiences had a significant impact on my life and work. Nearly all my activities relate to my calling or developed skills that would aid me in its accomplishment.

I began writing publicly with consistency through private mailing lists, forums, chat rooms and journaling for my partners. I was accustomed to having my opinions scrutinized and learned how to convey my thoughts for this medium. I didn’t expect to take this road.

I’m exploring the possibility of documenting my time away. Providing a behind the scenes look into the world of fashion. And using my position to encourage and inspire others. Especially women. Motivational speaking is on the horizon and similar projects along those lines.

That’s why I’m single.

But in all seriousness, that degree of scrutiny and diminishing privacy isn’t for everyone. They have to be comfortable being in the public eye. But they can’t crave celebrity. This is a holy mission. God gets the glory.



Absolutely. I’ve discovered a lot through the Internet and made wonderful connections. Its been a blessing.



If I was a child right now she’d be a Pinterest mom. Totally. Making things and taking pictures. She’d probably have a food blog. That’s how she expresses her love and care. Through acts of service.

I try to maintain a flow state when I work and that requires minimal distractions. But I accommodate my loved ones because they’re older. Sometimes that means calling earlier and moving a task to touch base. Weekends are an option (sorta). Being available is important. I don’t drop everything all the time. But when I can I will.



I don’t mind that. I keep them abreast of what I’m doing. Even if they don’t understand it all. By sharing, they’re included. We celebrate God’s faithfulness and blessings together.



What did you do there?



I wasn’t raised in the south. She lives here. Mother is allergic to shellfish. But I’ve been assured she belongs to us.

I make creole food. Crawfish is very good. My grandmother would prepare gumbo at Christmas (on my request) and had the seafood flown in from NOLA. I’m not that particular.



Understandable. Fashion is a different kind of art.



On occasion. But I’d outsource the work. That isn’t a task I need to do. My time is better spent on other pursuits. That’s the whole idea behind lifestyle design. Balance is a necessity. You can do a lot but not all at once. You have to account for pauses so you won’t burn out.

It is in vain that you rise up early and go late to rest, eating the bread of anxious toil; for he gives to his beloved sleep. —Psalm 127:2

I take those words to heart. I’m not a fan of busyness for the sake of doing.



It is. Water is calming. I’ll always live near it God-willing. I had an enjoyable childhood. I’m glad I wasn’t born later. That was the last era of manners and courtesy.

~Bella

I bet the Creole food you make is great. I love Creole but I can't eat much of it ever since I went Kosher.

 

[bèlla]

Look at the time...

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Very interesting. You might enjoy this.

~Bella

 

[bèlla]

I bet the Creole food you make is great. I love Creole but I can't eat much of it ever since I went Kosher.

Thank you. I learned to make several dishes from watching Emeril. I was a Food Network fan in the early days. There was also a Cajun chef on PBS named Justin Wilson. And I’d catch Paul Prudhomme on occasion.

What made you go kosher?

~Bella

 

[ReesePiece23]

Very interesting. You might enjoy this.

~Bella

Broken link?

Weirder still, look at the last three digits of my post count when that post was made (I'm not making this up - maybe there's something to this numerology thing yet...)

 

[Ronit]

Thank you. I learned to make several dishes from watching Emeril. I was a Food Network fan in the early days. There was also a Cajun chef on PBS named Justin Wilson. And I’d catch Paul Prudhomme on occasion.

What made you go kosher?

~Bella

Paul Prudhomme was cool So was Justin Wilson
I went Kosher because I became Torah Observant, What can be applied to today

 

[bèlla]

Broken link?

It wouldn’t move. I can’t link to the site.

Weirder still, look at the last three digits of my post count when that post was made (I'm not making this up - maybe there's something to this numerology thing yet...)

I don’t practice numerology but I understand the significance in your post (of the image) in relation to things I’ve been shown and experienced.

~Bella

 

[bèlla]

Paul Prudhomme was cool So was Justin Wilson
I went Kosher because I became Torah Observant, What can be applied to today

That’s nice. Do you fellowship with a messianic group or go to a traditional synagogue?

~Bella

 

[Ronit]

That’s nice. Do you fellowship with a messianic group or go to a traditional synagogue?

~Bella

I used to go to a Messianic Synagogue but now I don't it's Just mean and Jesus/Yeshua

 

[ReesePiece23]

It wouldn’t move. I can’t link to the site.



I don’t practice numerology but I understand the significance in your post (of the image) in relation to things I’ve been shown and experienced.

~Bella

Well, no, I don't practise numerology either...

Something is definitely going on though.

 

[bèlla]

I used to go to a Messianic Synagogue but now I don't it's Just mean and Jesus/Yeshua

Did you like it? I’ve never been to one. But I’ve attended services at Conservative and Reform synagogues. I enjoyed it. I found my way back to God and Christ through Judaism.

~Bella