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So I was talking to somebody the other day and we were talking about what I've learned from people I have dated this past year. And things I have learned and how God was involved.
The person I was talking to said something about that she believes more in God giving us Free Will how things happen (ex: dating). She said the other person that is in our phone prayer group would be more on the predestination side. Can someone explain more about this? Is there some kind of theology that leans more towards one than the other? And how God is involved?
And please I don't want any arguing or taking different sides in this thread. I'm just genuinely trying to understand the distinction. I have studied reformed doctrines a little bit, and I'm not sure if that's what she's referencing.
How does predestination factor in when dating people? And how does free will factor into dating? I'm sure some of the answers are obvious but I just thought it was a strange thing to bring up when I was talking about what I've learned.
The person I was talking to said something about that she believes more in God giving us Free Will how things happen (ex: dating). She said the other person that is in our phone prayer group would be more on the predestination side. Can someone explain more about this? Is there some kind of theology that leans more towards one than the other? And how God is involved?
And please I don't want any arguing or taking different sides in this thread. I'm just genuinely trying to understand the distinction. I have studied reformed doctrines a little bit, and I'm not sure if that's what she's referencing.
How does predestination factor in when dating people? And how does free will factor into dating? I'm sure some of the answers are obvious but I just thought it was a strange thing to bring up when I was talking about what I've learned.