I agree that we cannot soften our views with clear disagreement, but you still can present it clearly with kindness. Also, many of us would say that you have a biased view against Orthodoxy. From your perspective, we deviated from Orthodoxy. From our perspective, you (Catholic Church) have deviated from Orthodoxy.
Often, it seems like you pull out an arsenal of opinions you have against Orthodoxy, and often they aren't fair representations of Orthodoxy.
You are not Orthodox. Your posts sound like you think you are more authoritative on what we believe than those who are Orthodox themselves. I do not consider myself to be the top expert on Catholicism because I am not Catholic. That said, I know the Orthodox beliefs and our history, both good and bad.
We are very well read with the Church Fathers, and have researched our faith well. Many are converts, and many cradle Orthodox on the forum have done their own research as well.
Your views on Orthodoxy are skewed in my opinion, just as I am sure some of our views on Catholicism. Discussions and debates are the perfect time to correct our understanding of your view and us correct your understanding of our views. After all, living our faith makes us much more knowledgeable than someone on the outside.