My own answers to your numbered questions
1. To me God The Father, Son, Holy Spirit are 3 different beings/entities.
To me, the Trinitarian doctrines were so unimportant that God never bothered to reveal them even when he walked the earth as a man. Scripture does reveal that there are Seven Spirits of God, not just one. Jesus said to worship the Father, so that's what I do. Christians get into a tizzy over the doctrines of men, and divide over them. Obviously my own Church has a doctrine in this regard, that Father, Son and Holy Spirit are said to be "consubstantial", whatever that means. (I know what it means.) The Trinity is not central to my own thinking about God, but if you're going to be in my denomination, you're going to have to recite at every mass that you believe in the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit, that the Father and Son are consubstantial, and that the Holy Spirit "proceeds" from the Father and the Son. What you think those words mean is up to you to figure out. There is no test at the door.
2. I believe once you are saved you can always loose grace and salvation until once again you whole heartedly and humbly give your life to God.
If you are in a state of sin, you need to confess the sin to God and be forgiven it, then you are no longer in a state of sin, until you sin again. Jesus said what the deadly sins are in two lists at the end of Revelation. It's not the Ten Commandments Old Testament list, but a different list.
3. We do not believe women should be leaders of a church. Not a sexist thing that's just how we interpret women's role in the Bible. No arguments needed.
The leader of my Church, and the priests and bishops, have always been men, and always will be. Women have important support roles, as nuns and abbesses.
4. The KJV is not the end all correct Bible. Is it accurate sure. But we don't think a church that says the KJV is the only correct bible is true.
There is no "end-all-correct-Bible". The original manuscripts have been gone for millennia. All of our bibles are based on copied texts, or recensions of copied texts. Translations always change the way that things are understood.
5. Elders and deacons and such are fine but modern day prophets are a big no go for us. We put our faith in God. Not dave down the street.
No argument here.
6. Hell is a spiritual place of non believers. I believe that God will save those and all of those who come to him and repent and ask for and seek grace through him.
There is no "Hell" in the traditional sense of the world. Before the end there is Sheol/Hades, which is divided into Gan Eden/Paradise and Gehenna. They are separated by a black chasm which may have at the bottom of it the pit of Tartarus, of the fallen angels. At the end of the world, the New Jerusalem, the City of God, comes down to the New Earth and the dead are raised and come out of Sheol/Hades, either Gan Eden/Paradise or Gehenna. They are judged by Christ, who sits on the throne. Those who pass final judgment walk through one of the gates of the City of God, to live with God. Those who fail are thrown into the Lake of Fire for their second death.
If one wishes to call the Lake of Fire "Hell", that's fine, but those thrown into it are dead. If one wishes to call Gehenna "Hell", that's fine, but it is temporary and a place where debts of sin are paid - it is purgatorial, not eternal "Hell".
One may call the black chasm "Hell", but there's no indication that people go there.
7. Speaking in tongues. Snakes. Hell fire Brimstone. If I drink 3 beers over the weekend I'm bound for eternal damnation. No thank you.
Speaking in tongues seems to be one of several phenomena, one of which might be spiritual. People have different relationships with God, and he expresses himself in many ways. Snakes are animals. Some are poisonous. If they bite you, you might die. Leave snakes alone - to handle them relying on "divine security" is putting God to the test, and tempting him to let you get bitten to remind people not to do that. "Hellfire" exists, in the Lake of Fire, and Gehenna is pretty parched and nasty. Whether or to anybody ends up in one then depends on God. Beer? Drinking alcohol is not only not a sin, the New Covenant with Jesus Christ was made, by God himself, using wine. So Christians are REQUIRED to drink a little bit of wine, anyway, to "drink his blood" (although, for the squeamish, to eat the bread of his flesh is good enough). Nobody is damned for drinking three beers. Those who say they are lie, and lying IS on the list of deadly sins that will get you thrown into the Lake of Fire at final judgment, if unforgiven. Drinking alcohol is not on the list of deadly sins. In fact, it is not a sin at all. Neither is smoking a cigarette.
8. Jesus is Gods son. A spiritual messenger and teacher who performed works and miracles and died for our sins.
Yes, obviously.
Other Catholics would have different answers on these questions. There is a wide divergence of belief among individuals in the Catholic Church. You'd probably fit there, but if you're looking for people to police, to ensure doctrinal purity, or to talk with much about abstract religious doctrines, you might not find Catholicism very interesting. By and large, Catholicism is between you and God. You dance the steps of an old dance, as part of the tried and true traditions that keep people focused on God. And then you figure it out...and pretty much keep it to yourself. Sure, you can talk to other Catholics about what you believe, but they're probably not going to be very interested, or very argumentative. Catholic religious belief (as opposed to ritual), is a very personal thing between you and God. It's done in a big crowd, with bells and smells and music and pageant. But the actual believing, acting, and sorting out what's what is left up to you.
You may not find Catholicism to be sufficiently structured or sufficiently organized socially to be what you are looking for.
If you're a Catholic, you'll certainly find no end of people who will tell you everything that's wrong with your religion!
So, I'd say that you're perfect for Catholicism. Whether or not Catholicism is perfect for YOU is a different question.
Nobody is going to preach hellfire at you for your cranky beliefs about Lucifer, because nobody is going to know them. And if they do know them, nobody is going to say much. You do you, and stick to doing the things that God said, and you'll probably be alright in the end. That you can certainly do in the Catholic Church (in any one of its 24 different church "flavors"). Whether you will find the loose and individualized Catholic relationship to God to be adequately social for you is a matter of taste. Most Protestants are used to church being a weekly social EVENT, for which one dresses up, where one sees and is seen, and interacts. You can find that in the Catholic Church, but you have to work for it.
