- Dec 4, 2012
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My immediate family has had a reunion for the first time in approximately 20 years, and my family is not Anglican. Dad was feeling hurt when he learned I am not eating certain foods over Lent.
I compromised and had a small dish with foods I would normally abstain from. When food is offered in hospitality my principle is to "eat whatsoever is set before you."
Anglicanism doesn't prescribe these matters, but even if it did what is the point of being a Christian if we don't abide by the spirit of the law rather than the letter?
It is good to fast and also good to abstain for seasons and days, but not when it means slighting the hospitality of someone who purchased and prepared my food. It would not in this case be right to injure my father's feelings.
This is a basic principle I was taught by the priest who catechized me during my process of entering the church, and I abide by it still.
Thoughts?
Have a happy and holy Lent! Thanks be to God for his tender mercies.
I compromised and had a small dish with foods I would normally abstain from. When food is offered in hospitality my principle is to "eat whatsoever is set before you."
Anglicanism doesn't prescribe these matters, but even if it did what is the point of being a Christian if we don't abide by the spirit of the law rather than the letter?
It is good to fast and also good to abstain for seasons and days, but not when it means slighting the hospitality of someone who purchased and prepared my food. It would not in this case be right to injure my father's feelings.
This is a basic principle I was taught by the priest who catechized me during my process of entering the church, and I abide by it still.
Thoughts?
Have a happy and holy Lent! Thanks be to God for his tender mercies.