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ToBeLoved

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Don't listen to any of them. Study the Bible instead. It is God's revelation to Mankind concerning all that he needs for us to know in this life.
This is very true.

I don't know why the OP is even messing around with spirits anyway.

It is not good. The OP needs to just let all that go and concentrate on Christ and His Word.
 
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Deal with your mental health through psychiatrist/counseling/medication.

Deal with your spiritual health by finding a good Christian congregation to physically attend.

Trying to find answers on the internet is only going to cause you more confusion due to your mental situation, as I'm sure you're becoming aware of now....if you haven't become aware already. You'll begin to find the answers you seek with prayer and getting out in the real world.
Why people that do not have mental health issues even think they should be giving anyone advice is beyond me.

It is irresponsible.

The OP needs to get help. Getting help does not take one away from God. Getting help allows them to function normally and be a Child of God with a clear mind.

I wish people knew their place in giving advice for things they don't understand and know NOTHING about.

Why say anything or have you studied mental illness and have a degree?
 
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You are advising a babe in Christ who is unsure about her position and 'hearing voices' with a clever theory.

This dear babe is tormented and you give her a formula!?

Mental illness needs to be treated by medication from a psychiatrist and good ongoing counselling and monitored regularly.
This IMHO is a lack of humility, just throwing their advice out there and they know nothing about anything the OP has experienced.

Mankind always wants to hear themselves talking. They will be accountable to God if they cause this babe in Christ to stumble. God's Word says it is better that a noose be around their neck and that they be thrown into the sea, than to cause a babe in Christ to stumble.

People need to realize that mental health issues are serious and not something willy-nilly.
 
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Why people that do not have mental health issues even think they should be giving anyone advice is beyond me.
My experience with mental health issues is my personal business, but I assure you I definitely have experience in that matter. Why people assume I don't without asking me first and flapping off at the mouth is beyond me.

I tried to PM you with this matter to tell you why I have experience, but I am unable.
 
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I joined a dating website to hopefully get a little good conversation, and it made me sin more.
Because you have to take care of yourself and get yourself in a good place mentally.

Then you will be in a position to be with others.

Remember what they tell you on an airplane when there is a emergency, you can help no one unless you take care of yourself so you have the functionality to help others.
 
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My experience with mental health issues is my personal business, but I assure you I definitely have experience in that matter. Why people assume I don't without asking me first and flapping off at the mouth is beyond me.

I tried to PM you with this matter to tell you why I have experience, but I am unable.
My PM's should be open.
 
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I'm losing my ability to discern the spirits (meaning the voices in my head, the ones from God vs. the ones from me), and am experiencing doubts about my faith. I'm not sure what to do.
You need to take responsibility that you may have a mental health issue and get tested.

Only if you are tested will you know.
 
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I'll be honest. My psychiatrist I have isn't the very best. Long story but in my town, medical help isn't very good. Would it be out of the question for me to find a different psychiatrist? Because everything he tells me to do just isn't working.
Your psychiatrist only has so much control. They cannot do what you do not agree to. Find out information and then discuss it and come to a treatment agreement with them.


You have as much control as they do. You can help guide your own treatment so study what is going on and know your options. Be careful but try different things under your doctor's care.
 
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I'll be honest. My psychiatrist I have isn't the very best. Long story but in my town, medical help isn't very good. Would it be out of the question for me to find a different psychiatrist? Because everything he tells me to do just isn't working.
Have you told him that it is not working? They only know these things if you open up about everything. So go back in and talk about what can be changed. Eventually if you are honest they will find something that get's you to the best that you can be. It is somewhat experimental and each person is different, the way they react to medication and which medications work and how.
 
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I am going to seek out actions for my problems, but I won't post what those actions are, so as not to offend one side or the other here. Because there are two different sides.
Don't worry about offending me. You talk with your doctor and then I will be happy.

It is in your hands and not about offense, but about you being the best son/daughter for Christ. You can only be this when you are at your best.

You are responsible to take care of yourself.
 
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Deal with your mental health through psychiatrist/counseling/medication.

Deal with your spiritual health by finding a good Christian congregation to physically attend.

Trying to find answers on the internet is only going to cause you more confusion due to your mental situation, as I'm sure you're becoming aware of now....if you haven't become aware already. You'll begin to find the answers you seek with prayer and getting out in the real world.
I updated my PM's please send me one, maybe I muisuderstood you.

As I'm sure you can tell, I have a big issue with people that do not have mental illnesses (diagnosed by a doctor) giving advice to one who has a mental illness. I have heard some really bad stuff and I know it is a hard, hard road
 
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Where can we find this kind of church?
The internet has streamlined this journey for us. Typically I'll just type in a churches name and location in my browser and it will bring up links I can check out. I'd suggest churches that affirm the Nicene creed or at least has a SoF that's in line with the creed. Normally they will have a calendar showing service times, events and activities that are available. Its great when they upload sermons that you can listen to to get a feel for the pastor and the church's approach to scripture. Ultimately you'll have to visit a time or two to complete your investigation. I've found many good churches this way throughout my spiritual journey.
 
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I'm losing my ability to discern the spirits (meaning the voices in my head, the ones from God vs. the ones from me), and am experiencing doubts about my faith. I'm not sure what to do.
Hi, I face the same issues. It's hard to determine thoughts from us and those from God. James Dobson wrote a book on it, that addressed that, titled "Emotions, can you trust them."
Let me know how things go for you. I've been a believer for many years, and still face this issue. I actually think you are in a healthy place! I've seen other believers not question the source of their thoughts, particularly those with positions of leadership in the church. This led to spiritual abuse, as they expected other believers to accept "their" ideas without question.
 
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I'm losing my ability to discern the spirits (meaning the voices in my head, the ones from God vs. the ones from me), and am experiencing doubts about my faith. I'm not sure what to do.

Seek and ye shall find is a promise in God's Word. With all of your Heart, with all of your strength, with all of your mind and with everything you can muster seek God The Father. He will then lead you to Christ who will raise you. Christ is The Cornerstone of your temple and every stone that's placed after The Cornerstone must be placed by God The Father or the stones of your temple will come down. I believe that very few have truly seeked.
 
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Thus saith the Lord; Cursed be the man that trusteth in man, and maketh flesh his arm, and whose heart departeth from the Lord. - Jeremiah 17:5

It simply is not in the bible to take needs to the medical community! The bible says...

Is any sick among you? let him call for the elders of the church; and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord: - James 5:14

And these signs shall follow them that believe; In my name shall they cast out devils; they shall speak with new tongues; They shall take up serpents; and if they drink any deadly thing, it shall not hurt them; they shall lay hands on the sick, and they shall recover. - Mark 16:17-18

The signs are to them that believe, as the scripture says...

For whatsoever is born of God overcometh the world: and this is the victory that overcometh the world, even our faith. - 1 John 5:4

You guys can live apart from scripture all you want.... I will embrace the Word of the Lord.
 
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