Something went wrong in their transition to earth. Maybe they were aborted or there was a miscarriage or something like that. The world is in a fallen state and there is death in the world.
Sure. But the question is: can you call it "wrong" when a soul goes straight to an eternal paradise?
The Bible says that God saves them from the trouble that is to come. Because of His love and His mercy.
That's not an answer to the question being asked.
Yes of course we are happy that our loved ones went on to their reward. We still miss them and we have questions that we wish we had asked them when they were still alive.
But you'll see them again, right? Can't you just ask those questions then?
See, here's why I'm asking this....
There doesn't seem to be any real difference between the mourning of christians on the one hand and atheists on the other...
Considering what christians believe, I'ld expect that "mourning" for a christian would be more comparable to when an atheist's child moves to the other side of the world.
They assume they'll see eachother again some day, but they'll still miss eachother. But there is no real mourning. Having your child move to the other side of the planet is clearly not the same as your child dying - and the response from those that stay behind reflect that clearly.
But that's not what I see in the real world.
In the real world, I see christians react to the death of loved ones in the exact same way as atheists do.
Which makes me rather conclude that deep down, christians see death pretty much the same way as atheists do: game over, the end.
Why else would they react in the same way?
Why would it not make sense that we still grow and mature in Heaven.
Errr.... because physics?
I can not begin to tell you all I look forward to when I get there.
So........you look forward to dying?
It's kind of scary how much you sound like a foot soldier from al-qaida or ISIS or something.