Achichem said:As to the question about not lasting, I am sad to say that is because of me and my issues, but I assure you I have been seeking to remedy this over the last while and have been on a vow of "isolation" to be sure of a clear prospective(I still dont think I am or was a player and I would appreciate everyone keeping away from the word, thank you).
As for your question Princess Pea, I agree with you, however when I used the serious and committed line I was referring to the dynamic rather than in the marriage sense, so that my definitions. For a long time my relationship style has been fundamentally flawed(I fully admit that) and I am working hard make sure that a demon I beat.
As for this situation I am about to face, upon reflection of your answers I intend to heed your wise words and keep away from courting. It will be hard, she has already hinted that she wants to start something(in my mind) today she started the boyfriend non-fulfilling bit and telling me how she thinking of leaving very soon(maybe that just a girl thing). Also the probing questions, and it doesnt help I despise the guy she with and we liked each other back and forth for years(with me or her backing off thousand of times). Oh well faith in G-d, faith in G-d right?
Appreciate it!
This is good - you posted a question, got several responses, and are now taking the answers to heart and seriously trying to make some changes. That's a trait that doesn't show up on every thread posted here, and it's a very good thing.
Umm ... yeah. But you know that already, don't you?Achichem said:PS: One more thing, just cause you dont think of me bad enough already: using my other friends to help a brake up happen sooner is just as wrong, right?
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