Ok, let's start over.
The two great commandments did not originate with Christ in the NT.
Luke 16
25 On one occasion an expert in the law stood up to test Jesus. “Teacher,” he asked, “what must I do to inherit eternal life?”
26 “What is written in
the Law?” he replied. “How do you read it?”
27 He answered, “ ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’; and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’”
So, clearly, this law came from the OT.
Deuteronomy 6:5
And you shall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.
Leviticus 19:34
You must treat the foreigner living among you as native-born and love him as yourself, for you were foreigners in the land of Egypt. I am the LORD your God.
So if, as you say, the ten commandments "were for the Jews coming out of Egypt not us,"
Who, exactly, is "us?"
Would it include the primitive people to whom we send missionaries, as well?
If so, then we needn't bother them with the ten commandments, even if theft, lying, fornication, and adultery are a part of their culture, correct?
But if they do need these ten holy precepts, are we then exempt from that which we would bring to bear upon them?
Why do we so desire to be excused from obedience?
Why?