Hello Watchman. Thanks for your post. If the message presented is without the power of the gospel truth then people will not change and will keep living their lives as before. I don't think it's a case of going back to their normal lives, it's that's where they've always been. The gospel is the power of God for salvation for all who believe, but if churches present their own message, sans gospel power, nothing can change. God Bless
Just after I finished my post I had another thought that is worth mentioning. I viewed a Youtube message from a speaker who was talking about how we can know the will of God in what we plan to do. It was quite a revelation to me and I wondered why I hadn't known it for all the years I have been a believer.
There is a Scripture in Psalms where it says that we should not be like a horse or a mule, directed with a bit and a bridle. I realise that seeking the will of God for some kind of inner voice of instruction is just like being a mule that has to be directed with a bit and a bridle. It is more than "getting a Scripture" to support what we want to do. It is much more realistic and practical than that.
There is a Scripture that says: "And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God" (Romans 12:2), and: "Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things" (Phil 4:8).
So, when we think of something we want, or need to do, we ask ourselves, is it:
good
acceptable
perfect
God's will as shown in Scripture
true
honest
virtuous
worthy of praise?
If it fits this criteria, we can know that it is the will of God for us. We don't need to get any inner voice, or proof text. We just have to know that what we intend to do fits the criteria and then we can be confident that we are doing the will of God.
I have had a number of relationships with women between marriages before I married my second wife 30 years ago. Those relationships were built on lust, trying to meet my needs in my own way. When I examine my motives in line with the criteria, I know that those relationships were not God's will for me, because they were not good, virtuous, perfect, or acceptable. Someone can walk out of a church because they are angry at the pastor. Is that the will of God? Probably not, because leaving a church because one is angry is not good, virtuous, worthy of praise, or perfect. God's will in that situation would be to go and reconcile with the pastor and settle differences.
Three years ago I moved from Auckland to Christchurch. I sold my home in Auckland, and bought another one in Christchurch. Was it the will of God? I didn't have any inner voice, nor did I have a proof text for the move. But I wanted to be closer to my adult daughter in my twilight years, buy a less expensive house, and live in a quieter part of the country in a city I knew and loved. The move fit all the criteria, and it has worked out well for me. I joined the small Union church, and the Lord told me that it was more important what I put into a church than what I could get out of it. That fit the criteria, and that they needed someone like me who stood for the Gospel of Christ in the face of the liberalism that was in that church. I was immediately put to work as the treasurer and property convenor, and invited to be on the preaching/ministry team. God opened the door of ministry for me because I was doing His will in my move from Auckland to Christchurch.
That's why we should have no fear in what we plan to do at any time if we are aware of the criteria that we can test ourselves by.