I’ve never felt saved. So when people say only the elect can be saved then it could possibly make you wonder.
Well, thank you for telling us such a personal thing. You can pray and trust God now to do what He really wants to do with you. And read and feed on what His word says He does with His children, and ask and trust Him to do this.
By the way, there are people who say faith is not a feeling but trusting.
But I offer > if you submit to God, you will feel being with God. For example, you will feel the difference of being personally ruled by God's own peace in your heart. Part of our basic calling >
"in one body" > as Christians, is we submit to how our Heavenly Father personally rules each of us > in our
"hearts" < very personal, indeed >
"And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful." (Colossians 3:15)
And we refuse to obey the cruel and soul-hating things like fear and worry and lusts to use people for pleasure, and frustration and unforgiveness > we certainly feel these!! And God's peace will put away such horrible things, and we feel this, indeed, but because it is a reality and not only a feeling.
This peace is not only a feeling, then, but this peace is God in His harmony (peace) of His own almighty power ruling us in our hearts and minds. This peace almighty protects us from fear and worry and hurry and boredom and loneliness and other cruel things which are not His love. But also, we are with God in His creativity for how to love any and all people in this peace of God who is creative and all-loving.
And I will offer you . . . yes we feel Him, but God is quiet. He is never silent, but quiet; so if you let noisy and nasty things in you get the better of you, you can't experience sharing quietly with God. But in His love we are in His love's
"gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God." (in 1 Peter 3:4)
So, while we are quiet in His love, we experience sharing with Him while He feels and experiences enjoying how we are gentle and quiet with Him.
So we are wise to simply trust Him to change us so we are sharing with Him and submitting to Him, like this.