Citanul
Well, when exactly do you mean?
- May 31, 2006
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I lean very strongly towards not having kids, although I'm not completely against the idea, especially when I hear other people talk about theirs and it makes me wonder whether I might be missing out if I were never to have them.
The main reason is that kids are a huge responsibility - you now have the task of looking after and shaping the life of another human being from its beginning. That's an incredibly daunting task, and I just don't know that I'd be up to it, especially given all the things that you hear that kids are faced with these days. I suppose having that fear might not necessarily be a bad thing as it could push me to do a good job, but it still puts me off the idea of having them.
There's also the age factor to consider. Men can continue to have children as they get older, but it obviously becomes an issue for women. While it's not at that point yet, the longer I remain single, the bigger the age gap would need to be for there to be a realistic chance of children, and I'm not sure just how big an age gap I'd be comfortable with.
The main reason is that kids are a huge responsibility - you now have the task of looking after and shaping the life of another human being from its beginning. That's an incredibly daunting task, and I just don't know that I'd be up to it, especially given all the things that you hear that kids are faced with these days. I suppose having that fear might not necessarily be a bad thing as it could push me to do a good job, but it still puts me off the idea of having them.
There's also the age factor to consider. Men can continue to have children as they get older, but it obviously becomes an issue for women. While it's not at that point yet, the longer I remain single, the bigger the age gap would need to be for there to be a realistic chance of children, and I'm not sure just how big an age gap I'd be comfortable with.
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