Deb, i'm not upset. i just dont want to debate. i want to converse. two entirely different things. one carries a connotation of being on two sides, and often disintegrates into "i'll prove you wrong" or "you prove me wrong". the other carries a connotation of sharing our perspectives and asking questions of each other without confronting each other for information.
i just prefer the latter.
muffler, (keeping what i've just said in mind, ok?) i will share with you my feelings on the tithe.
yes, i do feel it is disobedience to not tithe. that being said i will temper it with these points:
1. it does no good for me to tell someone that i believe they are being disobedient, becuase if someone is quite sure they dont want to/ believe in tithing, it just makes them mad. it's God's role to convict, not mine. my role is simply to share my experience of what it is like for me to worship God in this way.
2. how you understand the tithe is going to affect how much and in what matter you tithe, but the important thing is to seek God about it and be obedient to your conscience.
3. it isnt a law anymore. if someone gives soley because they "have" to, then that is offensive to God i believe, becuase we are to give cheerfully as our hearts tell us. it is up to us individually to allow the Spirit to work in us, and bring ourselves, to the place where we CAN give more than He asks, willingly, and cheerfully. it's kind of a danged if you do, danged if you dont situation: dont give = disobedience, give (grudgingly) = disobedience. whereas cheerful giving = obedience is something that takes time to grow into....
i'm not particularly concerned with making my tithe identical to how they tithed in the OT (ie. 23.5% or whatever).... the
principle i follow is that the tithe (tenth) of my firstfruits (and seeing as how i dont have an orchard, all my firstfruits are money!) is the MINIMUM to give, becuase it is nothing less that what God deserves. our of the 100% that He gives me, He asks me to give Him back only 10% by bringing it into the storehouse - where i get my spiritual food from - which is my church. that leaves the other 90% for me! for me, that makes 10% seem like such a small amount. He is such a good God, and blesses me beyond, way beyond, the measure that i give back. so i WANT to give. and i am thus a cheerful giver. if i want to give $100 of my grocery money to bless someone, and then i start talking myself out of it, i go no, i give what is in my heart to give, and trust God to take care of me. and He has never failed me, despite the work i need in stewardship in other areas. He is overwhelmingly good to me. i want to give.
extravagently.
there is a scripture in the OT somewhere that talks about how someone's sacrifice, when done without the right motive was actually offensive to God.... anyone know where it is??