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Do you consider your beliefs too unique for one denomination?

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I ask this because my beliefs are so different from every denomination. I worship differently depending on my mood so I range from Catholic worship style to rowdy Pentecostal, I believe in a lot of things Catholics believe but I'm more on the side of Baptists when it comes to baptism and literalness of the bible, then I believe in speaking, praying, and praising tongues. I also believe confessional is okay and that some pastors can abstain from having a wife. Eh, it's all so confusing in my head. So I settle on an Assembly of God. But that is not my beliefs in concrete like most are in a denomination.
 

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I ask this because my beliefs are so different from every denomination. I worship differently depending on my mood so I range from Catholic worship style to rowdy Pentecostal, I believe in a lot of things Catholics believe but I'm more on the side of Baptists when it comes to baptism and literalness of the bible, then I believe in speaking, praying, and praising tongues. I also believe confessional is okay and that some pastors can abstain from having a wife. Eh, it's all so confusing in my head. So I settle on an Assembly of God. But that is not my beliefs in concrete like most are in a denomination.
Wow. A "cafeteria Christian" (no offense intended). How did you arrive at such conflicting beliefs? Do you accept the Bible (only) or do you also accept tradition, experience, and other stuff.

Myself, I just go by the Bible, so I'm pretty "concrete" in what I believe.
 
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Wow. A "cafeteria Christian" (no offense intended). How did you arrive at such conflicting beliefs? Do you accept the Bible (only) or do you also accept tradition, experience, and other stuff.

Myself, I just go by the Bible, so I'm pretty "concrete" in what I believe.
I interpret the bible on my own. I also do take tradition into account. I'm not sure how I feel about the apocrypha though I have not read much of it. I just don't agree with everything a single church says. I do not ever want to step foot in a Catholic church based on the governmental and recent historical corruption but I also don't believe tongues are important enough to be considered pentecostal. I believe in pour or immersion baptism but not sprinkle. I believe revelation is literal and that Jesus was not married/engaged and had no children. I like what you said. I'm a cafeteria/buffet Christian.
 
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I ask this because my beliefs are so different from every denomination. I worship differently depending on my mood so I range from Catholic worship style to rowdy Pentecostal, I believe in a lot of things Catholics believe but I'm more on the side of Baptists when it comes to baptism and literalness of the bible, then I believe in speaking, praying, and praising tongues. I also believe confessional is okay and that some pastors can abstain from having a wife. Eh, it's all so confusing in my head. So I settle on an Assembly of God. But that is not my beliefs in concrete like most are in a denomination.
What you're describing here isn't as unusual as you may think. I've run into a number of people who have said very much what you said here. It's understandable.

But I have to disagree with the idea that you can't possibly find a compatible church home because your beliefs or practices don't fit neatly into the best-known of the denominational slots. That's not to say that there's anything inherently wrong with a non-denominational congregation, but the differences between the denominations aren't as black and white as you may be thinking.

There are Charismatic Roman Catholics whose worship practices might well be in line with what you are explaining. Anglican or Episcopal churches do provide for private confession to a clergyperson, although that's not the usual way. And many denominations have a lot of latitude on what are considered to be non-essential doctrines, such that you wouldn't be in defiance of their statements of belief by belonging.

I believe in pour or immersion baptism but not sprinkle.
Relatively few churches would disagree with you on that.

I believe revelation is literal and that Jesus was not married/engaged and had no children.
There are many ways of understanding the Book of Revelation and almost no Christian church believes that Jesus married or had children.

I'm beginning to think that you're a lot more mainstream than you think you are! ;)
 
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Yeah, but my town has literally one non-denominational church and it's worship is dry spiritually (it is loud but not spiritual enough). I do have a church home though and it's perfect for me worship-wise but I still have my own beliefs.
What you're describing here isn't as unusual as you may think. I've run into a number of people who have said very much what you said here. It's understandable.

But I have to disagree with the idea that you can't possibly find a compatible church home because your beliefs or practices don't fit neatly into the best-known of the denominational slots. That's not to say that there's anything inherently wrong with a non-denominational congregation, but the differences between the denominations aren't as black and white as you may be thinking.

There are Charismatic Roman Catholics whose worship practices might well be in line with what you are explaining. Anglican or Episcopal churches do provide for private confession to a clergyperson, although that's not the usual way. And many denominations have a lot of latitude on what are considered to be non-essential doctrines, such that you wouldn't be in defiance of their statements of belief by belonging.
 
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Yeah, but my town has literally one non-denominational church and it's worship is dry spiritually (it is loud but not spiritual enough). I do have a church home though and it's perfect for me worship-wise but I still have my own beliefs.
Are they (your beliefs) directly in conflict with the stated Creeds or Statements of Faith that have been promulgated by that church or denomination? If not, there's every likelihood that you're as entitled as the next person sitting in your pew.
 
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One thing is I have to agree that speaking in tongues is the evidence of the Spirit infilling. I don't believe that, I believe everyone has it that has any evidence of any of the gifts. I speak in tongues but I don't believe an Anglican has to or a Baptist has to to do God's work.
Are they (your beliefs) directly in conflict with the stated Creeds or Statements of Faith that have been promulgated by that church or denomination? If not, there's every likelihood that you're as entitled as the next person sitting in your pew.
 
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Welcome brother to the original Christian denomination. The non-denominational. I was born and raised catholic. When I was around 21 years old I really began to question the Catechism because it did not line up with scripture. In fact, it down right contradicted scripture. So I left the Catholic church to find a new home. However almost every mainstream denomination has some sort of doctrine which basically states "if you are to call yourself a baptist, lutherian, pentecostal, methodist, ect, you have to believe this". The only problem is that where was always something I did not agree with. Basically it boiled down to this. I absolutely refuse to believe something solely because I was told to believe it. If it does not line up with scripture, I don't believe it.

I also think mainstream denominations probably have done more damage to the church by dividing the church and bickering amongst themselves on "who are the better christians". There is a reason why non-denominational is the fastest growing christian "denomination" in the world right now. It is because people are fed up with the division.

I used to go to atheist forums to work on my apologetics. I remember what one atheist said that really rung true. He said, "How is it that there are more atheist in America than ever before and is still rapidly rising yet you never see an atheist doing door to door with pamphlets?". The answer is sadly this, it is because they don't have to, the church does a better job converting people to atheism that any atheist could.

Ok. I am done venting. Just remember. You are in the same denomination that Matthew, Mark, Luke, John, Paul, James, and Peter were members of.
 
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I got to an AG church and believe most of their 16 doctrinal statement. But there are things that I see quite differently, but I consider them 2ndaary doctrines and not big deal. So in the basics I don't have much disgreement with most statements of faith.
 
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I got to an AG church and believe most of their 16 doctrinal statement. But there are things that I see quite differently, but I consider them 2ndaary doctrines and not big deal. So in the basics I don't have much disgreement with most statements of faith.
I go to one too but to become a member you must believe in baptism in the holy spirit with the evidence of speaking in tongues. I believe that if you show evidence of any of the spiritual gifts such as discernment then you have the spirit. See, the bible says "do all speak in tongues?" in Corinthians. And by the context he is saying that no, they do not. It's bad doctrine to think that tongues are a requirement for ANYTHING in doctrine. Especially for salvation like some believe.
 
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I go to one too but to become a member you must believe in baptism in the holy spirit with the evidence of speaking in tongues. I believe that if you show evidence of any of the spiritual gifts such as discernment then you have the spirit. See, the bible says "do all speak in tongues?" in Corinthians. And by the context he is saying that no, they do not. It's bad doctrine to think that tongues are a requirement for ANYTHING in doctrine. Especially for salvation like some believe.
I have to respect the thinking you've explained to us and the problem as you see it with finding the right church--if there is one--for you.

Some people just pick at minor doctrinal points or else feel overwhelmed by theology. You aren't saying that and, in fact, it appears that you are correct in saying that there's a meaningful impediment to you making, in good conscience, an Assemblies of God congregation be your home church.

Perhaps a non-denominational church would be the answer to that, although the nature of non-denominational congregations isn't a uniformity from one congregation to another that we'd find with some denominations, so you do have to do some sleuthing.
 
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I ask this because my beliefs are so different from every denomination. I worship differently depending on my mood so I range from Catholic worship style to rowdy Pentecostal, I believe in a lot of things Catholics believe but I'm more on the side of Baptists when it comes to baptism and literalness of the bible, then I believe in speaking, praying, and praising tongues. I also believe confessional is okay and that some pastors can abstain from having a wife. Eh, it's all so confusing in my head. So I settle on an Assembly of God. But that is not my beliefs in concrete like most are in a denomination.

You basically just described me! I haven't found a place to settle down yet, may wind up back in a Catholic church, may wind up back in a Southern Baptist... Only God knows!
 
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As I wrote to 'Reborn,' that is what many people feel.

Don't despair but instead commit yourself to a reasonable (but not lifetime!) investigation into the various denominations and their distinctive beliefs and practices; then visit local churches after narrowing the list. This may sound either too simplistic or too demanding, but I don't think either is actually the case and it could solve or avoid a lot of problems other people have had.

Because each person's doctrinal slants or needs are different, please elaborate if you have certain issues that could help anyone to give advice. If, OTOH, you weren't asking for advice at all but just were reflecting on Reborn's story, don't feel you have to say anything. :)
 
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To cut to the chase, then, why not find the Anglican parish that's right for you?
We only have Episcopal churches here and they are very LGBT friendly and I don't like that. They even have gay sexually active pastors/priests.
 
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We only have Episcopal churches here and they are very LGBT friendly and I don't like that. They even have gay sexually active pastors/priests.
Understood. I don't think that point came up before in this thread as a consideration.
 
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We only have Episcopal churches here and they are very LGBT friendly and I don't like that. They even have gay sexually active pastors/priests.
Now you are using some discernment. Scratch 52 churches. The sad truth is that Christianity in North America is falling away day by day from Bible truth (even among Evangelical and Fundamentalist churches).
 
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