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You find taller men more masculine, and I find younger women more feminine.
No I don’t. Tall men find me attractive. They’re the first to approach and pursue. But handsomeness is more appealing than height. I like dandy’s.
~Bella
It became enflamed again when I got into my 20s.. because I started running into feminists complaining about body image issues and pretending that it was just a female problem and not a male one. Plus arguing that those who once rejected me should be pitied by those who were rejected.
Did you encounter them in person or on the Internet? Most people experience disappointments when relating to the opposite sex. I don’t think it’s good to dwell on them.
~Bella
Millennial women chose height when they were at their peak and many were quite nasty about it.. us millennial men are never ever obligated to be kind about our preference for youthfulness when it comes to the millennial generation.
You sound like you’re at war. Do you expect a kind rejection?
~Bella
You probably do.. nothing wrong with it.. just your biology.
Rejection? I do much better with women than I did my teenage days.
Is desensitization the end you seek? Wouldn’t wholeness be better?
~Bella
No.. just after a while.. feeling angry about something.. becomes more and more boring.
Amen.Concerning the title of the thread,
Proverbs 31:30 English Standard Version (ESV)
30 "... beauty is vain ....."
Perhaps you could be open to the idea of not being shallow.This thread has been very illuminating for me to read. I read the other replies and see how incredibly shallow of a person I am (or was since I've remained single for almost 15 years).
I'm not sure what to do with this new info
I’ve never had men pursue me for my looks - I’m also not the average good looker model material that men of this world genuinely go for, and I’m okay with that lol.No I don’t. Tall men find me attractive. They’re the first to approach and pursue. But handsomeness is more appealing than height. I like dandy’s.
~Bella
Which post?Amen.
But my initial post about being vain was in reference to the vain definition in the dictionary.
Vanity of vanity, all is vanity. ?This thread has been very illuminating for me to read. I read the other replies and see how incredibly shallow of a person I am (or was since I've remained single for almost 15 years).
I'm not sure what to do with this new info
Perhaps you could be open to the idea of not being shallow.
I’ve never had men pursue me for my looks - I’m also not the average good looker model material that men of this world genuinely go for, and I’m okay with that lol.
You’ve been liberated from the past and found better companions. It’s difficult to heal when anger remains.
The more you lean into the good things you’re experiencing the less energy you’ll have for negative memories.
Ghosts are has beens. Let the dead remain where they belong.
~Bella
Well like I said, much of my anger has stemmed from feminist body positive movements.
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