The hardest thing is not knowing why.
I digress.
Thunder Peel said:You bring up a great point and one that I've often thought about myself. I think part of what makes the pain even worse is when you don't have answers. Heartbreak is tough but not knowing WHY is the real killer. Not knowing if it was something you did, or if God chose to break it apart, or if the other person wasn't honest, or any number of things.
That's what leaves scars. Wounds heal but the question marks that so many of us wear is what slowly eats away.
I'm completely over every woman I've ever loved. Maybe I'm just unusually fortunate.
I think moving on is where the replacing happens. I think it happens in the way of just cause and affect. IOW, breakup happens, both go their separate ways, one or both get over that person, find someone new, falls in love. Cause and affect of the breakup. Can't avoid it being replaceable. If one doesn't want to be replaceable then make sure you do each other right, and are in genuine love because the probability is not that high to be replaceable as compared to being flighty with one another and doing each other wrong. Can't replace memories but if we weren't so replaceable then we wouldn't be able to find something good after a serious relationship ends.As the title says, do feelings for someone ever actually go away or do we just replace them with someone else?
Just shows how much females do not have a clue about us males when too many times, it is mostly talked from the flipped side. It may not be their fault, or the male's fault. More times than not, I do not believe it is the fault of females. It is the male's responsibility to be understood and the female's responsibility to be workable with trying to understand, just as it is the female's responsibility to be understood and the man's responsibility to be workable with trying to understand and if one can't do it, then don't cry about not being understood. We are different from one another.Secondary question. I am reading a book and there was an interesting quote. From a lady: "I didn't know that guys hurt like they do until I had sons of my own." what is your guys take on that?
just realized I never responded to this one. I'm actually not sure why you're asking about this, or what you're trying to get at. Do you think most women don't understand that men have actual feelings and can feel hurt in regards to relationships ending? Most of the guys I know have very tender hearts, even if they try to hide it through bravado. But I know when they hurt, they really hurt. Its just silly to think they can't feel pain as powerfully as a woman can. It just generally gets expressed differently to the outside world.Secondary question. I am reading a book and there was an interesting quote. From a lady: "I didn't know that guys hurt like they do until I had sons of my own." what is your guys take on that?
Oh my I had to read this.. I am going through a divorce right now.. to 18 years of marriage.. and even though I know in my head it is over.. I love him.. It feels so strong it will never go away.. did others have to do something to help them let go?
just realized I never responded to this one. I'm actually not sure why you're asking about this, or what you're trying to get at. Do you think most women don't understand that men have actual feelings and can feel hurt in regards to relationships ending? Most of the guys I know have very tender hearts, even if they try to hide it through bravado. But I know when they hurt, they really hurt. Its just silly to think they can't feel pain as powerfully as a woman can. It just generally gets expressed differently to the outside world.
I'm not getting at anything. It was just intriguing, that's all. I had my own thoughts and wanted to others thoughts as well.
ah gotcha. just seemed kind of like a random quote when talking about all this breakup stuff, so i wondered.
Apply your signature and try your best to deal with it as best as you can.Oh my I had to read this.. I am going through a divorce right now.. to 18 years of marriage.. and even though I know in my head it is over.. I love him.. It feels so strong it will never go away.. did others have to do something to help them let go?
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