The differrent translations of the Bible have, of course, had human involvement, but the main ideas are there.
Yes, that is one aspect of what I meant by the "message behind the words is from God." The "main ideas," as you say, are there, regardless of the variations in the translations that are the result of human involvement.
But I also think that the writers themselves leave their own imprint on the "main ideas," based on their own personalities and filters, the way they tend to view the world.
One writer sees a side of God that resonates with his own detail-oriented filter, and he focuses on this aspect of God, that He is a
very particular God. And this is true. But this aspect alone would leave us with an unbalanced picture of God. It helps to have many different writers over time, sharing their inspiration of God. And we have to dig past their filters to find the principles at the core of what they describe.
The Bible says that we should stone our kids for being dishonorable. I do not condone the abuse of children, but discipline is needed to turn them towards the Lord.
Israel lived under a theocracy, and so I don't question any decisions of the Lord as to who should live and who should die. As a matter of fact, we all should die, and it is only the mercy of God that we are allowed life for a period of time. So I don't stand in judgment of any command of God in a theocracy where He determines that death should be the penalty for certain behaviors. He knows what He is doing and why He does what He does. Stoning might seem like a rather crude way to accomplish discipline, but that was the culture of the time, and even up until today, people of the Middle East still use stones as weapons (just look at world news on TV, and you will see that the practice of stoning the "other side" continues.)
The Bible has been given to us as His Word to follow, learn from, and lead our lives. If we start questioning the infalliblility of the Bible then, logically, we can start eliminating sections that we disagree with. Can you imagine that? ""Well, we don't believe in Adam and Eve, so let's get rid of that fellow John the Baptist as well." I know it's crude , but it's where its headed
I agree with you that it is a slippery slope that we need to be aware of and we need to put on the brakes. So I don't eliminate
any part of the Bible. I believe everything that is written, but I do interpret some parts in ways that harmonize with the overall picture of God more clearly.
For instance, my main source for knowing what God is like is in Jesus and His words. Jesus says that "If you have seen me, you have seen the Father," and Jesus has revealed God the Father to be a God of love, "merciful and gracious, longsuffering, and abundant in goodness and truth." So that when I read accounts in the Old Testament that make God appear to be anything but loving, I do not discard those texts, but I give them the benefit of the doubt that this is how He must have appeared to the mind of the writer.
And I always try to keep in mind that some of the decisions made by God in a theocratic government are rightfully His to make, and who are we to stand back in moral outrage and say, "why, WE would NEVER do that!" God is always right and we are always wrong in anything that is at issue.