Hello Dave. Thanks for replying to me. I agree with what you're saying to a certain point. I experienced what you also experienced, there are definitely false claims and false manifestations in Charismatic and Pentecostal Churches.
In my experience such circles also have a low priority for Bible Study and the Fruits of the Spirit. Studying the scriptures is key. We are in the last days and we can expect to see deceptions and deceivers, as the Lord warned us about. We must be prepared and alert.
However I believe there are genuine gifts of the Spirit today. Sadly though they seem to be almost drowned out by all the madness and lies. God Bless You
Here's the problem in a nut shell. The gifts were only for the Apostles who performed the same role as Jesus, Moses, Elijah, and Elisha. The gifts validated their Apostleship.
“How shall we escape, if we neglect so great salvation; which at the first began to be spoken by the Lord, and was confirmed unto us by them that heard him; God also bearing them witness, both with signs and wonders, and with divers miracles, and gifts of the Holy Ghost, according to his own will?” Hebrews 2:3–4 (KJV 1900)
And also only to those, they laid hands on.
“And when Simon saw that through laying on of the apostles’ hands the Holy Ghost was given, he offered them money,” Acts 8:18 (KJV 1900)
Why did Paul want to go to Rome?
“For I long to see you, that I may impart unto you some spiritual gift, to the end you may be established;” Romans 1:11 (KJV 1900)
And only to those few, they laid hands on. The Samaritans, The Ephesian disciples of John. Philip, Stephen, keep in mind Paul ministered to the Corinthians....
They lasted until Scripture was complete. Paul said tongues and prophecy were incomplete. But scripture equips us completely. And when the perfect (complete) came, those gifts would cease.
Also, Paul no longer healed in the epistles but placed his sick friends on medicine.
I have lots more if interested.