I married in 1984, and we have 2 grown children. We became Christian in 1989. My husband then confessed to multiple one night stands. After that he was not a very nice person, I would tell him he was hurting me and wrote several letters over the years. He began drinking in 99, fast forward to today, over those years he made it obvious he liked women, but I had the confidence that he would never cheat again, still he was not very nice and was very self centered. In may of 2017 he talked with me about divorce, I found out he was having a very strong emotional affair at work, over the last 2 years I have had about 7 revelations, the continuing lies have destroyed me on top of this affair, I could be here all day, he then has confessed to another one night stand in 2011. I am utterly destroyed, to the point I can barely function, he states he probably was never saved but is def now, I dont have a thread of belief in him, I cant understand y for 2 YEARS he would see me get better only to destroy me again, and the last one has been the worse, this has caused me to question God, I don't know what to do, I'm trying to force myself to continue with him becuade he says he is truly sorry this time. Most of this 2 years has been spent with absolutely no one to talk to, I did see my pastor last year even though he didn't want me to, then released to our children this year, that wasn't good. This past weekend I got more revelation from him, and we both went to the pastor. Then yesterday more revelation, I mean seriously how much can one person handle? He says I know everything thing now, but that's been stated multiple times. I'm desperate.i am trying to trust God. My WHOLE being is in utter despair.