IMHO one word suffices for me... Love.
1 Cor
4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8Love never fails.
1 John
7Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.
8Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. 9This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son[
a] into the world that we might live through him.
1 Corinthians sums God up in a nut shell pretty well... Assuming if you conclude God is love and the Bible depicts love as such.
As far as your analogy of wrath you brought up, at this point, post Christ and Old Testament Law... Things are based on discipline. Why do you discipline your children? You love them and want them to learn whats best for them. Mind you, discipline is not only punishment, its punishment that brings forth a lesson and brings correction.
dis·ci·pline
(dĭs'ə-plĭn)
Pronunciation Key
n.
- Training expected to produce a specific character or pattern of behavior, especially training that produces moral or mental improvement.
- Controlled behavior resulting from disciplinary training; self-control.
- Control obtained by enforcing compliance or order.
- A systematic method to obtain obedience: a military discipline.
- A state of order based on submission to rules and authority: a teacher who demanded discipline in the classroom.
- Punishment intended to correct or train.
- A set of rules or methods, as those regulating the practice of a church or monastic order.
- A branch of knowledge or teaching.
Proverbs 12
1 Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge,
but he who hates correction is stupid.
Proverbs 10
16 The wages of the righteous bring them life,
but the income of the wicked brings them punishment.
17 He who heeds discipline shows the way to life,
but whoever ignores correction leads others astray.
18 He who conceals his hatred has lying lips,
and whoever spreads slander is a fool.
So if God is love and He loves us, and we are in the wrong, how then can we not expect some sort of dicispline from Him?