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Electric Sceptic said:
By "ignorance" you mean "disagreement with me" and "asking me to support my claims".


Great, then show that any of THESE things are more prevalent among the 'godless'. In short - support your claims. So far you haven't even attempted to do so.


If he's not, I will. What does prostitution do to harm a society?

Just off the top of my head:

Prostitution:

- Encourages adultery
- Sets a bad example for kids to follow
- Encourages an industry riddled with crime (the sex industry)
- Encourages the drug industry also riddled with a lot of pain & suffering & crime
- Spreads STD's
- Destroys marriages resulting in more kids without a proper family environment
- Encourages a lowered moral standard & sexual deviancy

Probably more I can't even think of...

As for supporting my claims if you want a statistic from a source then I don't have it, I gave you my source above which I edited out due to its nature.

I wasn't a Christian all my life, I have plenty of life experience to back my claims up.
 
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TheListener said:
What does prostitution do to harm a society? Are you seriously asking me that?
Yes, I’m seriously asking you that. How has legalized prostitution harmed the state of Nevada? We Nevadans who have experienced the largest population growth in the country for 20 years, who have one of the lowest unemployment rates in the country, who, outside of Las Vegas, live generally crime-free, a state where businesses are flocking to; yes, please tell me, how has prostitution harmed the society in which I live?
 
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The fact that we are sitting here discussing this is proof enough.

David Gould, if you have a look at the papers, tv, magazines etc etc what are they all trying to do?

Pop down to your local mental health clinic & see how many young girls are bulimic, anorexic etc.

I can't tell u where to go to see how common date rapes gang rapes child rapes etc are.

Our society is run by greed & so is our government. What is the purpose of the IR reforms?

We gave Indonesia a billion dollars, how much did we blow our own trumpet, to the point of almost demanding the release of a convicted drug smuggler "because we're such generous people".

Come on have some common sense...
 
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Firstly, please address this point in my previous post (which you ignored):

Great, then show that any of THESE things are more prevalent among the 'godless'. In short - support your claims. So far you haven't even attempted to do so.

TheListener said:
Prostitution:
- Encourages adultery
Demonstrate that it does this. I know of nobody who is encouraged to adultery because prostitution exists.

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- Sets a bad example for kids to follow
What, people are telling their kids they go to prostitutes? Please, that's just nonsense.

TheListener said:
- Encourages an industry riddled with crime (the sex industry)
It's filled with crime precisely because of attitudes like yours, that it's bad. Get rid of the illegality and the image of badness, and crime goes.

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- Encourages the drug industry also riddled with a lot of pain & suffering & crime
See above. In and of itself, prostitution has nothing to do with drugs. Realistically, it does because of prostitution's long-time illegality and image.

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- Spreads STD's
Sex spreads STDs. Prostitutes are no more likely to have an STD than anyone else (and if you dispute this, some figures are required).

TheListener said:
- Destroys marriages resulting in more kids without a proper family environment
Once again, support this. Show some figures from an authoritative source about marriages destroyed because of prostitution.

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- Encourages a lowered moral standard & sexual deviancy
You mean encourages a moral standard YOU don't like.

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Probably more I can't even think of...
Then you better get to work.

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As for supporting my claims if you want a statistic from a source then I don't have it, I gave you my source above which I edited out due to its nature.
So you cannot support your claims. I didn't think so.
 
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TheListener said:
David Gould, if you have a look at the papers, tv, magazines etc etc what are they all trying to do?

Pop down to your local mental health clinic & see how many young girls are bulimic, anorexic etc.

I can't tell u where to go to see how common date rapes gang rapes child rapes etc are.

Our society is run by greed & so is our government. What is the purpose of the IR reforms?

We gave Indonesia a billion dollars, how much did we blow our own trumpet, to the point of almost demanding the release of a convicted drug smuggler "because we're such generous people".

Come on have some common sense...
Yet again, demonstrate that all of these things have ANY causal relationship with lack of belief in god.
 
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TheListener said:
Open your eyes & see whats going on around you. Dont you trust your own eyes?

My eyes show me a prosperous, healthy, long-lived, low violence, low crime society.

This is why swapping life stories is useless - your experiences will be different to mine.

To get the true picture, we need statistics and comparisons with other times and other societies.
 
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Electric Sceptic said:
So you cannot support your claims. I didn't think so.

Sure.

How would you like it if your daughter came home one day and told you she became a prostitute to support her crack habbit but her herpes was playing up so her pimp beat her half to death, now she needs a place to stay?

Don't laugh, it could happen to someone... Maybe even to me, who knows. It's the world we live in isn't it...
 
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Electric Sceptic said:
Yet again, demonstrate that all of these things have ANY causal relationship with lack of belief in god.

As a person who beleives in Jesus I recognise the evil in all this and so I will go out of my way not to engage in such sexual immorality, I will flee from it.

I can't speak for others but as a godless person you have represented yourself.
 
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TheListener said:
Sure.

How would you like it if your daughter came home one day and told you she became a prostitute to support her crack habbit but her herpes was playing up so her pimp beat her half to death, now she needs a place to stay?

Don't laugh, it could happen to someone... Maybe even to me, who knows. It's the world we live in isn't it...

Of course that could happen. However, is it any more likely today than it was say 100 years ago? And what other risks where there 100 years ago that do not exist today? Et cetera. You could get hit by a falling space shuttle. But how likely is it?
 
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David Gould said:
My eyes show me a prosperous, healthy, long-lived, low violence, low crime society.

This is why swapping life stories is useless - your experiences will be different to mine.

To get the true picture, we need statistics and comparisons with other times and other societies.

Well I suggest you have a chat with your grandparents about the society they lived in then.
 
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David Gould said:
Of course that could happen. However, is it any more likely today than it was say 100 years ago? And what other risks where there 100 years ago that do not exist today? Et cetera. You could get hit by a falling space shuttle. But how likely is it?

I don't remember street walkers in the suburbs as a kid, it was strictly a Kings Cross thing.

Now its everywhere.

I don't remember ANY pornography as a kid because it was so hidden.

Now even petrol stations sell it.

Don't be mistaken the problems WILL get even worse.
 
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TheListener said:
How would you like it if your daughter came home one day and told you she became a prostitute to support her crack habbit but her herpes was playing up so her pimp beat her half to death, now she needs a place to stay?
As long as we’re spouting extreme, irrelevant absurdities...

I’d much prefer that scenario to one in which my daughter joins a religious cult, and decides to participate in mass suicide to hasten her meeting Jesus in heaven.
 
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TheListener said:
I don't remember street walkers in the suburbs as a kid, it was strictly a Kings Cross thing.

Now its everywhere.

I don't remember ANY pornography as a kid because it was so hidden.

Now even petrol stations sell it.

Don't be mistaken the problems WILL get even worse.
Not everyone sees this as a problem. No one is forcing you to view pornography or patronize prostitutes. Not everyone is a prude.
 
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TheListener said:
I don't remember street walkers in the suburbs as a kid, it was strictly a Kings Cross thing.

Now its everywhere.

I go to Sydney a lot. Me and some friends went looking for streetwalkers a few times, just to see them. (We do not have them in Canberra). We found 1 ... I guess we just aren't any good at seeing all that sexual immorality.

I don't remember ANY pornography as a kid because it was so hidden.

You have me there - I do remember pornography being around when I was a kid.

Now even petrol stations sell it.

Don't be mistaken the problems WILL get even worse.

Which problems? I look around, and I see problems. But I do not see the same problems as you do.
 
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TheListener said:
Would you be kind enough to quote where you got your statistics from?

I don't have my original sources so I searched again:

http://www.divorcereform.org/mel/rbaptisthigh.html
Catholics, Lutherans, and atheists tie for the lowest divorce rates at 21%.

http://atheistempire.com/reference/stats/main.html
http://www.religioustolerance.org/chr_dira.htm
Religion
[size=-1]% have been divorced[/size]
Jews
30%​
Born-again Christians
27%​
Other Christians
24%​
Atheists, Agnostics
21%

A source that reports a more precise number of atheists:

http://www.atheists.org/flash.line/atheist4.htm

. The new ARIS count now shows that the non-believer population has grown to 29.4 million, roughly 14.1% of the American community


I can't find anything on prisoners, besides Christian sites that mention or refute a 74-year-old article that reports 1/3% of prisoners are atheists.
 
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Well I suggest you have a chat with your grandparents about the society they lived in then.

I have. It was full of racism. They had massive violence - they called them 'World Wars' or something equally bizarre. Women did not have the vote. Neither did the blacks. And Jews were barred from teaching. Domestic violence was not a crime. And so on.
 
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