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Do you believe that if a woman get's pregnant, and then proceeds to gain 80 lbs because she sits on her couch and eats twinkies all day, it's her pregnancy that causes the stretchmarks?
I understand that pregnancy can and most likely will cause stretch marks. What I am saying is that overeating makes it much worse... you know what, nm. This isn't worth arguing about.Yes I do. Even if she had gotten back into shape straight afterwards she would most likely have the stretchmarks from her preganancy. My friend's mother is as skinny as a rake but she has stretchmarks everywhere on her stomach from both of her pregnancies.
Anyway....this women that you are talking about could have had post-natal depression...I don't know.
1. 40 lbs is on the high side, and over the recommended amount, I'm pretty sure about that. You are also failing to note that she admitted to me herself that she overate during her pregnancy.
2. 40 lbs for my ex-gf. I said 80 lbs as an extreme example (not of my ex-gf) to show that a pregnancy doesn't have to be the sole contributing factor to stretch marks. You get stretch marks from weight gain too.
3. Please don't pray for me.
I understand that pregnancy can and most likely will cause stretch marks. What I am saying is that overeating makes it much worse... you know what, nm. This isn't worth arguing about.
I understand that pregnancy can and most likely will cause stretch marks. What I am saying is that overeating makes it much worse... you know what, nm. This isn't worth arguing about.
Most women get stretch marks when they are pregnant. Any guy who judges you for getting them is not worth your time and should not be breeding in the first place. Women have no reason to feel bad for having stretch marks.Stretchmarks are why it sucks to be a women, guys don't get them because their skin is tougher. :S lol
Actually, men get them, too. My ex had them from weightlifting.
Most women get stretch marks when they are pregnant. Any guy who judges you for getting them is not worth your time and should not be breeding in the first place. Women have no reason to feel bad for having stretch marks.
Normally I wouldn't talk that way about people.. but you don't know the back story with me and this chick so yeah. She was a mean, spiteful girl... I treated her very, very well too but she just used me as a verbal punching bag so I don't feel too awful commenting on her body when she was so mean to me and I was so good to her.I thought he said ex, my mistake.
I don't expect guys to find stretchmarks sexy, that would just be stupid.....I just expect people to talk of other people's appearances with more respect.
She is an ex... She was the mean one I posted a thread back in November about. Gosh she was evil. But the stretch marks aren't why we broke up. Like I said, she was EVIL.
Contrary to popular belief, I'm not as shallow as you might think. My ex-wife has stretch marks and I didn't really care... she got them having my baby, what kind of degenerate piece of crap would I be if I held that against her?
Also, EVERYBODY get's stretchmarks, it's not a girl thing. I have them in various places from when I've gained or lost weight. And yeah, you get them from lifting weights too. I have some on my arms because I was more muscular in the military and then I stopped working out when my contract was up.
Oh, okay. ThanksI was kidding about the stretch marks being the reason you broke up.I remember the little bit you shared about that girl and have no doubt you had good reason to end things. I know you were addressing the thread in general about not being shallow - but I do want to say that I have never perceived you that way. Quite the contrary, actually - you seem like a good guy, overall.
Oh, okay. Thanks
Yeah, I have my "rough" edges, but I try to be a decent human being most of the time.
1. Do you find pregnant women attractive?
2. Do you find a mom pushing a baby stroller attractive? Or maybe jogging with it? Say... tight sweatpants, sneakers, hair pulled up with sunglasses on..
I will say yes to both!!!
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