A good understanding of the objective answers most questions:
God’s objective to do all He can to help willing individuals in fulfilling their objective. “All He can” included causing or allowing: Christ going to the cross, satan roaming the earth, tragedies of all kind, death, hell, and sin.
Man’s mission statement seems to be: “Love God and secondly others with all your heart, soul, mind and energy.” the problem being is obtaining this Love.
There are just somethings even an all-powerful Creator cannot do (there are things impossible to do), like create another Christ, since Christ has always existed, the big impossibility for us is; create humans with instinctive Godly type Love, since Godly type Love is not instinctive. Godly type love has to be the result of a free will decision by the being, to make it the person’s Love apart from God. In other words: If the Love was in a human from the human’s creation it would be a robotic type love and not a Godly type Love. Also, if God “forces” this Love on a person (Kind a like a shotgun wedding) it would not be “loving” on God’s part and the love forced on the person would not be Godly type Love. This Love has to be the result of a free will moral choice with real alternatives (for humans those alternatives include the perceived pleasures of sin for a season.)
This Love is way beyond anything humans could develop, obtain, learn, earn, pay back or ever deserve, so it must be the result of a gift that is accepted or rejected (a free will choice).
This “Love” is much more than just an emotional feeling; it is God Himself (God is Love). If you see this Love you see God.
All mature adults do stuff that hurts others (this is called sin) these transgressions weigh on them, burden them, to the point the individual seeks relief (at least early on before they allow their hearts to be hardened). Lots of “alternatives” can be tried for relief, but the only true relief comes from God with forgiveness (this forgiveness is pure charity [grace/mercy/Love]). The correct humble acceptance of this Forgiveness (Charity) automatically will result in Love (we are taught by Jesus and our own experience “…he that is forgiven much will Love much…”). Sin is thus made hugely significant, so there will be an unbelievable huge debt to be forgiven of and thus result in an unbelievable huge “Love” (Godly type Love).
I will address your questions which will generate more questions.
I'd agree with that we're not capable of righteous behaviour at all times but would you say that we are sometimes capable of it e.g. if someone falls into a river and is drowning and someone else risks their life to jump in and rescue them, is that not perfectly righteous behaviour? If it's not, how could it be improved? I don't see how it possibly could be.
1 Cor. 13: 1 If I speak in the tongues[a] of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast,
but do not have love, I gain nothing.
This “Love” Paul is talking about is only a Godly type Love, which today only Christians can have (Love is a huge topic which books have been written on)
If you have this Love, it will compel you to do great righteous things, but if you do not have this Love what ever you do is worthless.
There are lots of motivations for doing “good” stuff, so tell me how it is “worthless”?
If am an atheistic humanist trying to sell people on the value of being a humanist, does some “good” deed, is that “good” for those observing this “good” as compared to, someone doing it because of Godly type Love and others come to realize that.
By this, do you mean that it's sometimes hard to accept love without feeling that you have done anything to deserve it?
People will do almost anything to avoid having to humble themselves to the point of accepting pure undeserved charity, especially from a sacrificial giver.
Furthermore: some people believe, since you can do absolutely nothing to obtain God’s charity (it would be a work) you did not and could not personally humble yourself to accept pure undeserved charity to get it, since God just already gave it to you, yet a beggar correctly accepting charity is not working.
Would you not accept though that this is something that is beyond our experience? We may know someone who we can't ever imagine repenting and turning to God, but can we say from this that if God is trying to get through to them and He has an eternity of time in which to work, that He can't succeed?
Go to the Prodigal Son Luke 15, the father is doing everything perfectly to help his sons become like He is (Loving), to help them humbly accept forgiveness of a huge offence, so they will automatically Love like he Loves (Luke 7). If the prodigal son decided to be macho, hang in there, take the punishment he fully deserves and not further disturb his father with undeserved requests thus dying in the pigsty, what more could the father have done to help the son accept his charity as charity? Did the father fail in anyway, even if the son does not return?
God only would know when a person reached the point of never accept His charity as charity. This has to be done as a humans’ free will choice with truly likely alternatives. There has to be likely alternatives (for humans these likely alternatives include the perceived pleasures of sin [which most people choose]). These likely alternatives can only be found on earth for humans. Yes, people would “say”: they accept God’s Love, if they “Knew” hell was their only alternative, but hell is like putting a gun to their head and saying accept my charity or else. Would that truly be accepting God’s Love as pure undeserved charity or because you have no other choice?
God succeeds in providing the choice to all mature adults to become like God himself in that they truly have His Love.
But is it God's help we should be hoping for or should it be His love? If it's love, how can the warning sign of hell help us? We could cling to God out of fear of the abyss but this would be out of fear, not love.
God’s “help” is charity and charity is Love.
Why would Christians have a “fear” of the abyss, that is not where they are going?
Non-Christians as I have explained: do not have Godly type Love and cannot be motivated by Love, yet they can be motivated by fear.
To have a fear of hell, you have to have some believe in the Christian God and if you have just that little faith, that faith is enough to accept God’s help.
The soldier battling his hated enemy can surrender to his hated enemy and while still hating his enemy, be willing to humbly accept pure undeserved charity from his enemy. God will shower such hater of Him with unbelievable wonderful gifts, which will then cause the soldier to Love Him.