I think the general universalist idea is that no-one can ever reach a state "where nothing more can be done for them" even if they wanted to out of stubbornness, for example, or excessive pride where they want to be their own god. Once anyone gains a true understanding of the goodness of God, they would freely and rationally choose Him over being tormented forever.
I know it's a kind of circular argument but DB Hart argues that anyone who decides the opposite - to reject God having understood His love and beauty - would be delusional and could not be said to be acting freely. He likens it to a person with mental health issues who decides to run into a burning building for whatever reason they have in their mind. Is that person really acting freely and that we should just watch them do it because we have to respect their "free-will" decision at all costs?
Again, these Universalists see the problem as being a “learning” issue, lack of knowledge. If it were a lack of knowledge issue, then everyone will learn with time and can come around.
God is Loving them and they are getting that Love and they might express verbally, they are accepting God’s Love, but that is not the same as humbly accepting God’s Love as pure undeserved charity.
Think about this: If everyone is going to heaven and you are someone, then God is “obligated” to save you, since you are part of everyone. Your “salvation” has nothing to do with your free will and everything to do with God teaching you.
Think about this: You have to come to the realization: “
I totally do not deserve salvation”, which makes salvation pure undeserved charity to be accepted as charity, but as a universalist, you believe, I deserve salvation because everyone is saved and I an one of everyone.
The choice is not governed by knowledge or even wisdom, but by choosing to be humble or have humility not be our choice. We all have the ability to be humble and we all can be made humble, so we can choose to humbly accept charity or refuse to be humble and have God make us humble by going to hell (being eventually annihilated).
The “burning building” analogy is often used, so why do people stay in the burning building (they are not running in, but are already in the burning building [physical earth])?
1. None can get out themselves without help, but there is trusted rescuer there wanting to help you.
2. Even though the building is burning and the fire is getting closer the building has a lot of nice activities, so there is the desire to stay as long as possible.
3. You see yourself as a rescuer and thus not in need of a rescuer, so you want to go it alone, but it is really too late.
4. The exist is through the fire which the rescuer can get you through, but it is easier the earlier you decide to leave.
5. You through your false words and actions have encouraged others to stay, so to leave makes you a hypocrite, others will see you as a hypocrite, others have been burned already by your untruths, so would your death not be payment for your actions, and you are responsible for starting the fire in the first place which you do not want to admit to. Should you not have the courage than to stay and be burned up?
6. If you burn up, you see it as God’s fault and not you’re accepting to be humble and humiliated, so is God to do something?
Does time really help this situation or would more time just help you be more set in your thinking and help you to forget about the fire coming?
How is knowledge going to add to your personal willingness to be humble? God making you humble is not your acceptance of being humble?
Yes, but in the same way that a teacher provides understanding in that at some point there has to be a level of cooperation and willingless from the student for education to take place.
See above.
While that is a compassionate viewpoint, the trouble with it, to me, is that it creates a kind of class system in heaven, where some people are prevented from ever reaching their true fulfilment of having this "Godly type Love". I agree that for a decision to be free, there must be viable alternatives (so the "Your money or your life!" kind of choice is not a free one) and that we won't have these alternatives in heaven. The universalist response is that this choice is made by all be before getting to heaven.
The big problem I see is this humility choice can only be made on earth for humans and no other place.
Yes, there is a variance in heaven, but it really is only by the amount of Godly type Love, with God/Christ/Spirit being at the top and the lowest being those without Godly type Love and having only a wonderful strong child for wonderful parent type Love, but who comes out “best” or “ahead” in that situation? If I sacrificially love a person more than they can Love me back, are they not better off than myself? Can we really “envy” God’s great Love, since He is Loving us, more than we Love Him?
Yes, I think if it needed others to be annihilated or go to hell in order for me to learn the humility to accept God's charity, it would not only look bad on God but also on me. It seems no different to me than believing that for me to be able to eat well and feel glad of God's bountifulness, there has to be a number of people in the world who are starving to death. I just don't think the premise is right.
It is OK, to feel bad about the innocent Christ going to the cross, because of you and to feel bad about guilty sinners, who repeatedly refused God’s charity to be annihilated and even tortured some, because of you. God also much more than you, does not like it. I am personally responsible for both those terrible things, but they helped me and unfortunately I needed them to happen and do not see a way around them, for me to humbly accept God’s charity.
Will this does get back to the reason for making humans in the first place. God does not “need” humans, they cannot fulfill some need God has. To make a being that is like Himself will be a huge sacrifice for God and one you do not feel He should make nor do I see the value of making Godly type beings over the sacrifice God will have to make. So why do it? God can make robots, but they cannot be like God.
The first huge problem is the fact if you make a being with true limited autonomous free will; few, if any, might choose to accept their place, over other likely alternatives.
Does God allowing His wonderful innocent son to be tortured, humiliated and murdered to help you; make Him look worse than allowing people unwilling to humbly accept God’s forgiveness be annihilated while helping some willing individuals to humble themselves?
OK, Christ was “willing” to go to the cross and these refusers of God help (at great cost to God) unwillingly die and go to torment (hell) for maybe a while and are annihilated, I am not talking about those who don’t know and did not have an opportunity to accept or refuse, but those who actually refused bigtime. If there is no bigtime major punishment for sins (hell and annihilation), but just a slap on the hand, then there is no unbelievable huge debt for God to forgive, only a little debt, so by Christ’s teaching in Luke 7, there would be just a little love generated and not a Godly type Love generated, so how would the person get this huge Love, if not by Luke 7? This Love is not something humans can initially learn.
You talk about this “other place” between earth and heaven, but if the person goes there without knowledge of his/her life on earth what difference could there be to help make the sinners humble self with a new place? If the sinner goes there with full knowledge of his/her life on earth, the “choice” becomes like at a shotgun wedding with God holding the shotgun (no real choice with likely alternatives).
How do you deal with the feeling that it's partly your fault?
The only thing that keeps my knees from buckling with the realization; I caused Christ to go to the cross and I needed people (even though they are guilty) to go to hell (where I should also be) is the fact the greatest Love possible is being shown to me by God/Christ.
Does anyone feel they deserve, over all the other people who have died, to continue to live forever?
It will take some greater power (really a Godly power) for me to live forever, but does that cause people to turn to God?
But again, it's not that God "makes" us go to heaven, it's that He teaches us the very things you say, that we need to learn that we reliance on His love and grace for our complete happiness and fulfilment. And that's not an obvious lesson to learn, is it? I wonder if I won the lottery, would I start to feel so independent of things that I don't need God or anything other that the material goods my money can provide to be happy, and end up living in a kind of well-appointed prodigal son's pig sty.
If you truly, “Loved your neighbor as yourself”, would you be as happy to see someone else win the lottery, as you winning the lottery?
There is a huge difference between God doing all He can to help you make the right choice and God forcing or making the choice for you. It is your autonomous free will choice with likely alternatives making it a real choice.
After death everyone knows they will be in the hands of a greater power, if there is a greater power. It takes a greater “faith” to believe there is no greater power, than there is a greater power.
We have been given already plenty of reason to believe (trust) God, if we have seen, experienced, received, given or felt Godly type Love and most will at sometime in their life, then we have seen God. The problem comes with what we cannot just learn: being humble. In fact, we teach the opposite: self-reliance, working hard to take care of yourself, do not rely on charity, be better than others, make us proud, and you can be what ever you set your mind to.
But "autonomous free will choice" doesn't operate in a vacuum. A free-will choice is also called an informed choice and this is probably a better term because it brings out more clearly that learning is required. We can only make a free-will choice about smoking or drinking once we are aware of the risks involved.
You seem to be saying that all responsible adults are miraculously given the "knowledge" to make an informed choice about God, but I don't see why that is should be the case and that we can't learn it. Clearly, we don't all learn it in this life and therefore we must learn it in the next in order for God's stated intention to one day be "all in all" to be true.
All mature adults have the ability to be humble and to make very limited autonomous free will choices, knowledgeable choices. Just because all are either humble now or will later be made humble, does not mean all people have humble themselves to the point of accepting charity as charity. The idea is there are some who are proud now, who God will make humble in the end, but not out of their free will choice to be humble.
It takes some “knowledge” to be counted as a mature adult, so I am not addressing those without this limited knowledge (I have addressed what happens to them already). I do not know how little knowledge is needed to be counted as a mature adult.
Yes, the son is back home but there's still a difference. But even if he returned home through the entirely selfish reason that he was sick of the pig sty and not out of a free-will choice to accept this Love, could it still not mean that this was just the start of his journey to realise that Love. It was a repentance, a turning away from sin and not yet a turning toward God but why can't that come later?
This son, like people I have worked with in the past and myself as a witness, was humbly willing to accept pure undeserved charity (for selfish reasons) even if he thought a servant’s job would be the best he could hope for (knowing he did not deserve that). The forgiveness and other gifts the father showered on the son with the son’s humble willingness to accept the father’s charity would have overwhelmed the son with Love (with unbelievable forgiveness automatically results in unbelievable Love). That Love of the young son at that time would have been huge, but with use it can grow greater. I taught Bible in prison (long story), there were false converts trying to get out on parole someday, I thought were sincere, but were still gang members, carrying weapons and “going to school” as all the prisoners knew, but the guards and I did not know. There were also the real believers, they gave up: their gang membership, weapons and really all they had to their gang the day they were baptized. They would be beaten by the gang or other gangs wanting payback, until another Christian could jump between them and took the blows. These guys knew a happiness, power, and Love from the moment of their baptism, I did not realize could exist, so I do not like to limit God’s love to taking time.
I'm not sure I understand your question so do correct me is but is it how can see our need for forgiveness in those moments when we are caught up in sin and how would an eternity help?
If that is the question, then I'd liken it to a drunk or addict in their very worst "gutter" moments. If it's true that drink or drugs have an unbreakable hold on them and they are completely lost, then it's very ironical why it's at just those moments when the substance seems to have it's most powerful hold - when they've lost their family, jobs and find themselves homeless - that they find the resolve to renounce the substance and rebuild their lives. I think it's the same with sin, as the prodigal son demonstrates. No-one is ever so far gone that they can't decide to turn their lives around, and an eternity would help because some of us seem to need an awful lot of hard lessons to learn from our mistakes.
Our time on earth is plenty long enough for mature adults to come to that conclusion, as you know some reach these point in their youth.
When life goes on we tend to become harden. The people before the flood lived hundreds of years, so they should have done better than us today, right?
The rich man while in "a" hell, in the Rich man and Lazarus story, did not complain about not having the time, opportunities, learning or ability to keep out of hell. He did not say he was unfairly being treated.