Conservative has been in an increasingly non-descriptive (and confusing) label for some time
Yes, because two
opposing ideals are at play, both using the same descriptions of themselves... that of conservative, and that of being Christian..
Let me help you sort it out some, it might help it make a little more sense.
Myself being a self proclaimed conservative my conservative-ness is mainly FISCAL.
I didn't used to be socially conservative, socially I've always been libertarian with the only caveat being do no harm (yes, that means pro-life)
At least until recently. Now I must admit that those who were social conservatives might not have been wrong in some of their assessments, and I think I'd be much more willing to listen to them now more than ever before, we can probably get together now, whereas before probably not.
I'm going to say I'm not alone in the above paragraph.There are likely at least a few socially liberal minded people who are willing to take it back now and work with the zealots for more common ground. We are all Christian after all..
(As a besides it might help you to know my Christianity is anything but liberal - I won't attend churches that ordain women or that marry homosexuals. I'm just a Calvinist, which lends itself to being more socially libertarian politically than other Christian faith groups).
I didn't vote for McCain because of the government bailout proposal, I was just that opposed to bailing out failed businesses and don't believe anything is "too big to fail". When a company fails because of bad management, new and better companies always step in and fill any void. It's called progress and is the way of life.
i don't like McCain types within the Republican Party, I've never voted for the type, and literally never will.
I'm also against throwing money at people (Like COVID payments etc).. I believe in staying within our means as a nation. I said from the beginning of COVID that the shutdowns the way they were done were wrong. We should have put our most at risk on lockdown and let everyone else live life as normal. It would have cost less money and cost fewer lives .. but I digress. I was against Trump and others on that point...
But that's my fiscal conservativism... And I know I won't always be happy either. Lol.
Im also a nationalist. It's not that I believe in a white nation or any of that, but I heartily believe in the nation state model of government, versus the European Union style where a handful of people make life altering decisions for countries they don't live in, or have any real connections to.
The people I would term as neocons, are globalists. They would happily put us in sweeping trade agreements where we'd end up in European Union style arrangements that would open us up to being in a European Union style of government, where a small body of people could decide how many immigrants we have to take in a year etc etc.
I've nothing against trade, but I don't believe in handing over our national sovereignty to get it. If you recall the TPP and the other agreement that was going to follow it would have put us squarely in the middle of one...
for me, any republican who even once said they supported those agreements are non starters. I won't vote for anyone who supported that nonsense.
So, globalists verses nationalists are another BIG difference.
These are main differences. Fiscal, and globalism versus nationalists.
These are my non starters as a conservative. I won't even consider people who won't help get spending under control, or who would put us in a position to loose our national sovereignty over important issues like gun control and immigration.
My main support for Trump was over the TPP and the other one, so long as he got us out of that I would have been happy... But he did a lot more that I really really liked such as the new immigration policy, the conservative appointments to SCOTUS and more, so he got my support for the second run.
However, when I look at the differences between neocons and conservatives, conservatives are nationalists who are also fiscal conservatives. Whether or not they are socially conservative are often differences I believe we can work through amicably and find middle ground in.