Conflict OOC

[LightofHeaven]

She's right. It's pointless to jump to conclusions about how other people define what they say. This is what causes most drama. You really shouldn't be doing that, much less firing off verbal attacks like that. "The world is like a mirror, punc it and it punches you back."

Now, I apologizse for whatever. I did not see the offense in saying "thanks for sharing". I was even confused when Shad said I should apologize. I could have preached on one thing in your story, bt I chose not to and said thanks (not the kind of thanks you get after sAying "I'm gonna poop").

You need to understand, you are not the only victim. A lot of what you have zaid, to me, seem to say "you all suck", "you're stupid", "I expec you to do this", etc. You'll probably say "I never ssaid that", and the same thing I'm thinking about what you must've thought I said. Don't let words get to you so easily, Ninj.

We should remember "if everything's going your way, you're in the wrong lane".

ShAd, nuke this place, will ya?

 

[Shadowseldil]

Look, I said I don't know what's going on, since I came in after the fact. it's like walking into an argument halfway through. What I know is: Ninja made some sort of sensitive revelation, and you made some comment that hurt him. How, I don't know; I wasn't here for that part of the conversation. But whatever you said was misunderstood, and quite possibly because you misunderstood what Ninja was saying.

Is it really that difficult to admit that you said something stupid? I do it all the time! In fact, interjecting myself into this argument was probably a stupid move. But you are Christians, and my friends both, and Christians should never be at odds with each other. So, I wanted to help you both and throw down Satan at the same time.

Stop... just stop trying to defend ourselves! I can't voice my frustration in text, but I am sick of seeing people under Satan's thumb because they won't admit they did something dumb. Not necessarily wrong, just something dumb, that became a misunderstanding, and then became an argument, and then created a schism that couldn't be fixed. All because of a comment that was taken the wrong way, and someone who couldn't say, "I didn't mean it like that; I'm sorry, I should have said it differently."
Stop pointing the blame at other people! Point it at yourself! Yourself first! If you can't find anything wrong, "a soft answer turns away wrath." "What did I say?" "What did I do?" "Let's talk about this?" With the right spirit, those questions make marvelous difference. I can't tell you how many PM's I sent like that!



I'm sorry for my rant, in a way. It needs to be said, I think, and I'm tired of seeing Satan time and time again set people at war over a misunderstanding. But I'm sorry if it sounds like I'm lashing out. I didn't mean it, and if I did, please forgive me. I just hate this so much. I'm nearly to tears (if I could cry), I hate it so much. Please, you are my friends, both of you. Resolve this. Don't let Satan win. Please. I love you both.

 

[Ninjitsu14]

I don't necessarily see how sharing a very personal experience, and then getting upset when (I believe) you made a sarcastic comment. After all, it is usually you and MD that make such sarcastic comments, or say something and they usually have some sort of hidden meaning.

I apologize for taking your comment to be sarcastic and mean, but I still hold my position on I'm never sharing it again.

I also apologize for "Verbally attacking" you, although if you had just shared a very personal experience and you felt someone was undermining it with sarcastic comments, I think you'd be angry too.

I forgive you, but I'm not returning to this thread.

 

[LightofHeaven]

Peace out.



Let's start another "conflict". Yes, yes, yes! Oh, wait...a much less finger-pointing conflict. Yesssssss! How about ice cream? ::hands Shad lax-ized ice cream:: Eat up, dictateur.

 

[Shadowseldil]

How about we just get back to posting? I don't feel like arguing/joking/talking/chastising/ranting/ect. I need some fiction, and right now, not much is happening here. There's not much I can do without some interaction.

Maybe we can jump a few days ahead so that we can get our characters closer together?

 

[LightofHeaven]

Wait, is Maverik from the same organizaion as Wes? Wes is on his way to learn about PPW; or, should I say, Projec Perfect Weapon. If not, I have an ideA.

 

[Shadowseldil]

No, I don't think so. This group doesn't usually interact with people, and when it does, well, you've seen what happens.

 

[LightofHeaven]

 

[Shadowseldil]

Oh, I forgot to mention, feel free to have some characters know some basics about project Perfect Weapon. The details will become more prevalent later. I always come into threads with my own plotline, so there is always a secondary aspect to the central plot.

Speaking of, let's move it, people.

 

[LightofHeaven]

I thought about getting wes to the place Maverik killed people, without really knowing anything about it.

 

[Jesus_Luvs_techies]

I agree with Shadow. I was gone for awhile (maybe a week) and was expecting you guys to have gotten so far into the story that you had forgotten about me. I'm glad you didn't but let's get moving people!

 

[deepgreen11]

Let's roll!

 

[LightofHeaven]

::rolls in mud::

 

[Shadowseldil]

*sigh* Fine, I'll do it. But you will all have to figure out what happened to your characters in the mix.

No, wait; Light, if you want to visit that warehouse, do it now. Otherwise, it will get cleaned up and covered up.

On second thought, you can always write a retroactive post, remembering what you found and so on.

Correction: I will do it if the GM okays it. I know she has been here and all, but I figure I'll give everyone on last chance to do something. If I don't hear from her by tomorrow, I'll just throw caution to the wind and do it anyway. It won't be the first time I've completely hijacked a thread for a little while.

 

[LightofHeaven]

I'll post now.