Living people rarely go to Hell. In fact, I've never met a living person who ever had. You make the case that those who go to Hell are not granted everlasting life, which is true, and you construe it to mean that the soul of a dead man that will never be raised to life is somehow a living thing, even though it is quite clearly dead, and therefore it cannot exist if it is not granted everlasting life. By your understanding, even death isn't death. It seems to have a similar premise to the Gnostic heresy that believed that we are not raised to life after we die, but that we remain dead, in Heaven, forever. Who is it that returns with Christ to walk the Earth again? It is his church, his body of believers, who are raised to life. They don't return to haunt the place as a host of ghouls. By contrast, who isn't raised and will never walk the Earth again? Those who are in Hell will never walk the Earth again. They are dead, and they remain quite dead. There is no life in Hell.
I understand that some people can only accept a one-dimensional God, who seems to be extreme in every way except when it comes to wrath and judgment. They see him as a giant love-muffin. He is extreme in power, extreme in knowledge, extreme in his timelessness, extreme in wisdom, but downright finite when it comes to wrath. He must be totally baffled by human emotion, because he has no concept of negative emotion. Is this really the God you see when you read the Bible cover-to-cover? I don't.
You just lost me. I never trust a minister.