Shane Roach said:
With all the what if, I am left still wondering what the actual teaching is. The quote I was looking at saying it was all of her will, though, is the part that makes it look as if it is not Mary cooperating with anything, but that it is her will.
The act of cooperating IS an action that arises out of our free will . . our freedom to CHOOSE to cooperate . . the choice to do so was a result of her free will acting in this manner. . .
So it is not an either/or situation. It is a both/and situation.
If it is something that God gave her to do, that she then does in perfect submission to His will first and foremost, then the wording that it is her will in her time and to whatever degree she wills becomes sort of misleading as far as I can understand it.
How so? If God gives you something to do, He does not sit there and dictate to you how to do it . . He has given you free will . . do you think Mary's will is less free than yours?
But her will is in perfect union with God's will . . in heaven, this is the way it is . . With Mary, it is the way it has always been for her.
It is not "her" will as somehow opposed to God's will . . it is "her" will "in union with" God's . . . so how could she do anything contrary to God's will? This is understood to be so in such statements as you referenced above. I know how it can seem problematic to non-Catholics, however, if you keep in mind that some things are simply assumed by Catholics, such as Mary's will being in full union with God's, then such statements are understood in that light.
Again, it is not an either/or situation . .but a both/and one.
I actually relate well to the idea of Mary as a sort of anti-Eve, and I do not wish to belittle her place in things, but when I read "and one mediator between God and men, the man Jesus Christ." That seems to undo any possibility for mediation alongside by Mary, or indeed for the rest of us.
Not at all . .. What is Christ the One Mediator of? The context of that statement by Paul makes it clear that it is the NEW COVENANT . . . There are many mediators, otherwise how could Paul be filling up in his flesh what was lacking in the sufferings of Christ?
It is simply that no one other than Christ is mediator of the New Covenant . . .
Intercession is a form of mediation . . there are MANY, MANY intercessors . . this has nothing to do with Christ being the One Mediator . ..
Does this make sense?
If we pray for intercession, that is all well and good, but we are not mediating.
If you are interceeding for someone you most definitely ARE mediating.

There are different types of mediation . . this is what needs to be remembered.
Rather, it seems many of us together might pray, and Christ in mediation would present these prayers, but not Mary...?
How is it then that the 24 elders in Revelation offer the prayers of the saints to God in golden bowls? How is it then that the angels in heaven offer up the prayers of the saints with incense?
I am off for some sleep. I had an urge to come see the Catholic forum, as I remember KC Catholic fondly. She helped answer a lot of questions of this sort for me in the past. What with the Pope's passing, different things are coming to the fore again and I just felt like popping by. Then I discovered this thread and it raised the question. Thanks for all efforts at explanation!
I hope what I have shared has helped.

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