No takers? I'll suggest the movie. Let's go with 'Frozen'.
Of course this is based on Hans Christian Andersen's
The Snow Queen. Is anyone familiar enough with the original to note differences? I do know that in the original, the devil was the source of the problem through a mirror that distorted reality. I wonder if there were Norse influences, though.
Anyway, is there a way to maintain the story but change the message of individualism?
If they didn't say it was related to Andersen's fable, no one would have guessed it. A lot of changes were brought in. Essentially in the original, the devil and his trolls make a mirror that depicts all good as ugly and bad, which shatters and fragments get lodged in people's eyes, leading them to look on everything as bad. This happens to Kai, a boy, who then gets abducted by the Snow Queen and made to try and solve a puzzle. His friend, Gerda, sets out to save him, eventually melting the mirror fragments, etc.
Nothing here is even remotely the plot of Frozen. They have elements in common; no longer plot. The trolls are even good figures.
The problem isn't individualism, but self-worship and denigration of external categories of behaviour, with a deep distrust that social accomodation is possible or even desirable. This is especcially clear in the Coronation and fall of Elsa, before she runs away from responsibility to a fabulous Ice Castle.
Introducing a 'mentor character', something like Responsibility personified, that Elsa reconciles to, would help. Like a Privy Counsellor or Regent or something. He would need to be an ambigious ally of Hans and Weselton though, before rallying to the Crown. The Deus ex Machina ending where she suddenly knows how to control powers she has been struggling with her entire life, also needs to go. It could end with signs of the thaw setting in, melting snow and such, while Elsa and her counsellor sets to work running her country, or presenting Anna as her heir to the people - before the ice-skating ending. Thus we would reconcile the tension between sisters, between duty and desire, between tradition and the individual.
But would that have been as commercially successful? I don't know. Disney's only real goal is selling merchandise, theme parks and the like, after all. Frozen is a clear-cut celebration of 'being yourself' at all costs and that those that really love you, would do so regardless what you get up to. My version would be far more ambivalent.