Qidron said:
SAY nothing?...no...but look into what has already been said...check things out before we judge. When person #1 makes an allegation about person #2...find out if it's true before you ditch person #2.
Thats what I mean. If I pull someone up on something they have said its because I know what they have said is wrong. Some people will react badly not matter how much in love the person saying it says it.......
for example "hey person A, you know how you said about this thing, well I have found this book that says oppisate" as opposed to "person A, what you said was wrong. You are a stupid person"
People will always have differing opinions and points of view, what others need to realise is thats ok, if they are spreading hersey, sometimes a direct post on a board may not be the best way to go about it. But in times like that, thats why its good to ask God, the best way to handle the situation
Rules of enagement from another board just for interest sake
1. Am I only doing this because of my feelings
2. Do I care about this person/people
3. Am I willing to stay with the dialogue, regardless of how difficult it may get, (sticking around rather than just stirring up a hornets nest and running}
4. Am I in a frame of mind to be aware of how my words will be heard, (do I care about how I phrase things)
5. Do I spend more time pointing out peoples isues rather than giving empathy