Do you really believe that a modern English paraphrase, of a biased translation, accurately represents what Jesus actually said?
I know, I know... where does that leave you? (with a rational mind, I suppose) The tendency is to regurgitate scriptures without THINKING about what they mean in the larger picture.
My friend, I have a degree in biblical literature. Which means I have studied using the original language. I understand how it works. I have looked at these verses and studied them using the original. So I know where misunderstanding can take place.
Jesus said this.
Then the people who have done what God wants will reply, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink?When did we see you a stranger and make you our guest, or needing clothes and provide them?When did we see you sick or in prison, and visit you?’The King will say to them, ‘Yes! I tell you that whenever you did these things for one of the least important of these brothers of mine, you did them for me!’“Then he will also speak to those on his left, saying, ‘Get away from me, you who are cursed! Go off into the fire prepared for the Adversary and his angels! - Matthew 25:37-41
Bible Gateway passage: Matthew 25:37-41 - Complete Jewish Bible
Scripture also says this
Then the One sitting on the throne said, “Look! I am making everything new!” Also he said, “Write, ‘These words are true and trustworthy!’”And he said to me, “It is done! I am the ‘A’ and the ‘Z,’ the Beginning and the End. To anyone who is thirsty I myself will give water free of charge from the Fountain of Life.He who wins the victory will receive these things, and I will be his God, and he will be my son.But as for the cowardly, the untrustworthy, the vile, the murderers, the sexually immoral, those involved with the occult and with drugs, idol-worshippers, and all liars — their destiny is the lake burning with fire and sulfur, the second death.” - Revelation 21:5-8
Bible Gateway passage: Revelation 21:5-8 - Complete Jewish Bible
I am afraid it is the UR believers that struggle with understanding scripture because they want God to fit their understanding. It is difficult to wrap our heads around a God who is filled with love and yet a righteous judge who punishes those who reject his son. God is not slack in his judgement. His ways are not our ways. His judgements are pure and right. He is not flawed by human understanding.
Therefore, let us be terrified of the possibility that, even though the promise of entering his rest remains, any one of you might be judged to have fallen short of it;for Good News has also been proclaimed to us, just as it was to them. But the message they heard didn’t do them any good, because those who heard it did not combine it with trust.For it is we who have trusted who enter the rest. It is just as he said, “And in my anger, I swore that they would not enter my rest.” He swore this even though his works have been in existence since the founding of the universe.For there is a place where it is said, concerning the seventh day, “And God rested on the seventh day from all his works.”And once more, our present text says, “They will not enter my rest.” - Hebrews 4:1-5
Bible Gateway passage: Hebrews 4:1-5 - Complete Jewish Bible
God does not judge by flip of a coin. If you think that is what we are saying then you have no understanding. And it only shows a lack of understanding God. His mercy has been shown to us through his son. His love shown to us by his son. If we CHOOSE to reject his mercy and love then for God is is perfectly just to punish those who have. For he KNOWS the thoughts, ways, motives and actions of every person. Therefore his judgement is true. Nothing is hidden from God. He is not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repent. But he also knows that most people won't. And he knows why.
Those who trust in him are not judged; those who do not trust have been judged already, in that they have not trusted in the one who is God’s only and unique Son.“Now this is the judgment: the light has come into the world, but people loved the darkness rather than the light. Why? Because their actions were wicked.For everyone who does evil things hates the light and avoids it, so that his actions won’t be exposed.But everyone who does what is true comes to the light, so that all may see that his actions are accomplished through God.” - John 3:18-21
Bible Gateway passage: John 3:18-21 - Complete Jewish Bible