I see water baptism, as the following scripture states;
1PE 3:21 Baptism, which corresponds to this, now saves you, not as a removal of dirt from the body but as an appeal to God for a clear conscience, through the resurrection of Jesus Christ,
Baptism, being a resolve to believe in and be entirely devoted to God, as well as a renouncing of the flesh, is the ground of a (legal) appeal by a good conscience, based on baptism's pledge against wrong doing.
And yes, I see in that double figure in 1 Peter 3:21--the water that was judgment (in the flood, the death of the wicked; in baptism, the death of Christ and death of the believer to the flesh--sin) is also the water that saves--a relation to both Romans 6:3-6 on baptism, and Colossians 2:11-12 on baptism, all three presenting baptism as "putting off the flesh"--death to the flesh (sin). . .as OT circumcision was the "cutting off of the flesh" to symbolize the same thing.
I see the NT as regarding baptism in the way that circumcision was regarded in the OT (hence their link in Colossians 2:11), in
1) the putting off (OT--cutting off) of the sinful flesh,
2) the children of Abrahm being included in the covenant with their father and, therefore, being circumcised, and
3) circumcision setting one apart as under the covenant.
In OT Israel, not all those under the covenant were in the covenant, just as today not all those in the (professing) church are of the churcb.
Not all Israel was true Israel, many were faithless and uncaring regarding the Promise (Genesis 22:18, Jesus Christ). There was a division in God's people, between the faithful believers of the Promise who were in the covenant, and the unfaithful, disregarders of the Promise who were only under the covenant.
But all were still under the covenant of God's material provision and protection, as were their servants.
However, only the believers and trusters in the Promise (Jesus Christ); i.e., a remnant, received the covenant's spiritual/eternal benefits.
My point being that the spiritual benefits of the covenant apply only to the believing faithful, to those in the covenant as distinct from those under the covenant.
And I don't see, an infant, as being one who even needs, let alone can relate to, a "clear conscience". I believe that takes the congnitive thinking of someone older.
Indeed it does.
I see Christian baptism, however, as having both material and spiritual effects:
its
material effects being the sign of the covenant (baptism) where one enters into God's people, set apart from the world and a recipient of his material protection and provision, and
its
spiritual effects being the benefits applied to the
born again believers.
Keeping in mind, that in the OT, many of the people of God under the covenant by circumcision, were not truly believing but faithless. Only a remnant of them were the true Israel.
My point being that
in the covenant is remission of sin only for the born again believers, as in the removal of sin for the believing faithful
in the old covenant through the sacrifices,
while
under the covenant is only receiving its material benefits.
There is no spiriutal issue with children being baptized, giving them the benefits
under the covenant. For if, and when, they are born again into faith, they will be full participators
in the covenant and its benefits.
I see 'regeneration' of the spirit as the event most call conversion. I use 'conversion' or sanctification' for a soulish event.
I'm not familiar with spirit vs. soulish events in the NT.
I believe that the wife sanctifying an unbelieving husband means
the husband does not partake in 'that which' the wife took part of 'to receive' that which is imparted to the hubby.
That's Greek to me. . .which by the way in the RSV reads:
"For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified by the wife and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified by the brother; since then the children of you is(are) unclean, but now they are holy."
IOW The baby is under the umbrella without the ritual of water baptism being sprinkled on his head. And as I stated to begin with; water baptism is an "
appeal to God for a clear conscience."
But we are OFF TOPIC, and I think it's time to move on.