Well there is a difference in being real and accepting your limitations and constantly bringing them up every time someone mentions a topic. It just gets old and maybe if you would quit "speaking" that your situation would change. Doesn't mean you have to change your thoughts but you can change your actions......if you choose. I've seen your pic and you aren't ugly, but I don't know you in person, so only from here I can say, I feel your chip on your shoulder and that makes you less attractive, not more.....and for the record I am just trying to help. Not trying to be mean. My husband used to always say he wasn't going to live long because no one in his family lived long and I use to scold him about it, well he only lived til he was 55 so......
There are times when I am my own best friend.There are other times when I am my own worse enemy. Some things I say are just in jest.For example Rodney Dangerfield's"Hey,I don't get no respect!" Or in my case,"Hey,I do not get no chicks!"
I forgot. There WAS a time that a woman came on to me,when I was married to my first wife. I was in my early thirties. This woman was in her late fifties or early sixties. I was on a cruise. She walked up to me in the ship's casino. While I was playing the slot machine,She started touching the top of my head,while playing with my hair.She walked away and gave me a "come hither" look. There was no way that I was going to follow her.
My wife,her aunt,my mother-in-law,and my father-in-law were all on that same ship. They just were not in the casino at the time.
Also,one reason that I bring up so many senarios,is that I have had many times "up at bat to the plate". I will just have to stop "keeping score".
Sometimes,I feel as if GOD and Satan are playing a game. When enternity comes,whoever has the most souls win. Even in the Book of Revelation,John wrote,"And I saw a number that NO man could number"
To back up my point,do you remember the story of Job? Satan made a "wager" with GOD,that if GOD took away all of Job's blessings,that Job would curse GOD. We all know how that game turned out. GOD won and Satan lost.
Even with the cruxifiction of Jesus,Satan must have thought that he had won by influencing Caiaphas' and Judas' hearts. But GOD had our redemption "game plan" in mind before the foundation of the world was established.
Also,I thank GOD that he has given me a sense of humor to deal and to cope with my struggles in life. Whenever someons asks me what I do for a living.They ask me about my training to get my job. I tell them that I was trained in the U.S.Navy.Since I was in the Navy during the Vietnam War,I am asked did I see any combat. I tell them,"No.The ONLY combat I've ever seen was when AFTER I got out of the Navy,after I got.... MARRIED!" I get a big belly laughing response EVERY time!
