I didn't think you were looking for sexual experiences. but i do think you're attempting to use the church in a way it wasn't intended to be used to fill a void in your life. And thats what bothers me.I'm not really talking about picking up women. I just want to meet women. Its not really a sexual pursuit for me like meeting someone in a bar, more of an emotional one. I don't really want to have sex till marriage. I don't really care. I just look like an idiot now. I wish I never posted this.
lol semantics, but I understand what you're saying; you're just being difficult for the sake of being difficult now
Clearly, being single in this instance is being only one half of the common relationship of man and woman; therefore, being 'single' no matter how many friends, acquaintances, or otherwise, is still a factor of personal derivatives towards the previously stated end result.
You can meet women just about anywhere, but if you go to church with the sole purpose just to meet women, people will figure it out soon enough.
I didn't think you were looking for sexual experiences. but i do think you're attempting to use the church in a way it wasn't intended to be used to fill a void in your life. And thats what bothers me.
I do apologize for hurting your feelings. you don't look like an idiot. but i do think you need to reprioritize your stance with the church. If you are saved, you're here to serve the church, not use the church to serve you.
Well, that's not the only purpose I'd go. I never said that. I'd go for communing in general.It probably is some antiquated thing. I shouldn't have bothered asking.
good. the way you worded it in your OP sounded very much like you were only considering church because of the possibility of meeting women. If we were wrong and you want to go for other reasons, then don't let us stop you from that.
you won't hear alot of those stories here, most likely, since most of us are single ourselves. I would ask in the courting forums if any of them have met their significant others in church. I know it does happen though. people serve together, pray together, worship together, and bonds form. both romantic and friendship.
I'm not really talking about picking up women. I just want to meet women. Its not really a sexual pursuit for me like meeting someone in a bar, more of an emotional one. I don't really want to have sex till marriage. I don't really care. I just look like an idiot now. I wish I never posted this.
Don't go finding girls at church. They....have issues (i.e., single for a reason).
Go find girls in the outside world, like friends of girlfriends. Usually they've been in relationships before, they have the skills, and even though it's still a matter of taste, it's easier to find someone you'd work with.
Cheer up m8. You've accomplished quite a bit here by weeding out the nasty ones that you wouldn't want in the first place, that is, unless you're into that sort of thing (not judging).
Don't go finding girls at church. They....have issues (i.e., single for a reason).
Go find girls in the outside world, like friends of girlfriends. Usually they've been in relationships before, they have the skills, and even though it's still a matter of taste, it's easier to find someone you'd work with.