What soul of what thing? By "thing" are you referring women?
the point being that appealing to the sexuality in the woman helps to objectify her, and she brings it on herself.
Which is? And, exactly what scripture?
i don't think that is particularly obscure.
"Selfish"? Do you mean that in trying to appeal to a man a woman should what,
gain attention for things that are not what we are called to be attracted to in a mate for
all women? Exactly where does selfishness come into the picture? And, just who is doing all this "calling" you speak of? As it appears to me, sexuality is exactly one of the things men are innately attracted to. Do you have some scripture that says men are
not suppose to be sexually attracted to women?
sexual attraction is not the issue. context is the issue. sexual attraction being part of the bond, not the cause for it.
Ah, I don't think the real objective in dressing sexy is to help men fantasize about oneself, but rather to attract personal attention; like one-on-one real life stuff. This isn't to say some women wouldn't be pleased as punch to have men fantasize about them, but I hardly think they go to the bother and expense to do so. It's more of a secondary or tertiary result.
i agree it isn't the objective, but it is more often than not the result. you are having a very typical knee-jerk reaction to my post. the problem isn't in the women, it is in the men. my stance is an appeal to women to help men maintain a certain sobriety when it comes to their sexuality.
Really! A bare midriff does it for you, huh. To each his own. *shrug*
condescending and not worth comment.
And just what is that service, a relationship devoid of sexual attraction? "Hey hun, we got to do that s - e - x thing again if we're going to have another baby. You know, that thing we did four years ago!" Do you actually believe that women are so obtuse that they can't see beneath sexual attraction? You seem assume that women are incapable of demonstrating their other attributs while exhibiting their sexuality, and that men are so blinded by female sexuality that they cant pick up on these other attributes. Believe me, I, for one, can chew gum and pat my belly at the same time.
you are naive about the blinding quality of a woman's sexuality for many men. this is about men's weakness.
A culture driven by sex in its entertainment and marketing, huh. Care to cite the statistics that back this up? Our culture, like all cultures, is multi dimensional and driven by a slew of factors, only one of which is its entertainment and the marketing of products. You grossly exaggerate the situation, although I'm not surprised.
again condescending and curiously so, as it is women being objectified. not sure where your attitude is coming from, but i don't think my post is deserving of it.
First thing you've said that's somewhat on the mark. But, not all women dress provocatively, although considering that you're turned on by a bare midriff I understand where you're coming from.
more of the same.
If Madison Ave can talk women out of "scriptural encouragement" this obviously says little for scripture. But I think it's a mistake to lay the blame, as you seem to regard it, on Mad Av.. Women have always used their sexuality to attract men., and way before advertising came into existence. Moreover, it's interesting that you equate sexiness with being randy: of a lustful or lecherousness nature. Not saying that some women aren't lustful or even lecherous, but sexiness is not the equivalent of randiness. At least not among those who understand the distinction. A woman can be quite sexy without being randy.
being sexy is an implied promise of things to come. if she does not fulfill the promise then shame on her for false advertising. yes, there has always been advertising. this is not a knock on scripture, by the way, but on people's willingness to sacrifice what seems the natural way to go.
Good grief, another trite play on words.
non-substantive.
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I'm only keeping my long sleeved blouse buttoned at the neck, and am wearing an ankle-length skirt so you can see how much I love you. If I didn't love you I'd be in a thong and pasties. Aren't you happy? I said, AREN'T YOU HAPPY? HEY, WHERE YOU GOIN'"
hyperbole makes poor argument and is for those that can't formulate a cogent one. no one is talking about being buttoned up to the neck.
So what's the deal here, celibacy? Forget about flesh and blood men altogether? Excuse me, I thought your remark was going to be relevant.
once again, my post isn't about the women. it is an appeal to be considerate of the men. they are as weak as many women lament them to be, and my view is that Christian women might want to take that into consideration and choose to help men in their plight to be Christ-like. appeal to them on a different level. sex is great and can be a wonderful exploration between two people, but relationships that start with that appeal are immediately endangered. it is a powerful and blinding force at times. you express a women's need to use her sexuality to attract a man, but when that is the attractant you get what you troll for.
In any case I do thank you for your input here. Without hearing from people like yourself we would never know what the other side of the coin looked like.
A sincere thanks for your contribution.