Sin cannot approach God. There would be no suffering nor temptations for the Divine. He had to take on humanity in order to suffer and be tempted. In order to overcome sin, He was tempted just as we are. To be victorious over temptations, He underwent them in the flesh, just as we do.
The cross was the last and great temptation from hell He endured. In all the things pertaining to His cross, He did not sin; He overcame and obtained victory over them.
In these victories, He defeated hell, and gave us examples to follow. Therefore, He said to take up our cross and follow Him. It is our cross by which we overcome and defeat hell, just as He did.
Hi Em, you are clearly a very, very intelligent person, and normally, such a thing is always a great blessing. In this case however, you are faced with the Cross of Christ (which is one of the very few things that none of us can "think" our way around, not even you, I sorry to say
).
The Bible calls Christ (and His Cross) a "stumbling block" and a "rock of offense", because it is offensive to our human sentimentalities. It's offensive
1) because it tells us that we are not/cannot be worthy and
2) because it doesn't allow us to reach the conclusion that you have, IOW, that we can do what 'He' did and "
follow His example" (and that by doing so we can be found "good enough/righteous enough" to stand in His presence). The Incarnation and the Cross, in point of fact, tell us something else entirely
Outside of Christ and what
He did, there is nothing but bad news, and the bad news is this: God is your "
enemy" because you are a sinner, a child of wrath (
Romans 5:10, 12; Ephesians 2:1-3; 1 Corinthians 15:22a) and you are going to die and be judged worthy of burning in Hell eternally because of it (because you
didn't do what Christ did
).
Lawbreakers ("
transgressors of the Law" ..
James 2:10-11), that is, ANYONE "
who falls short of the glory of God" ..
Romans 3:23, will
NEVER see God (not outside of Christ, anyway). One of the main reasons the Lord came here as a man was to do what no man has ever been able to do before or since, lead a perfect, sinless, righteous life before the Father, since that kind of life is the absolute
minimum requirement for anyone who wishes to "approach God".
Christ also came here knowing that He would die on the Cross, but
NONE of it was for Him, Em, He did it all for us
He didn't come here to '
show us' the way to God, He came here because He '
is' the way to God, the only way and the only means of salvation (i.e.
John 14:6; Acts 4:12).
This is why we are saved by "hearing/believing" in what He did for us (i.e.
John 3:16, 18, John 5:24, John 20:31...), and by faithfully trusting that God will graciously choose to save us on that basis alone (just like He promised us He would), on the basis of an "alien" righteousness, Christ's righteousness (not our own), and on the basis of His death, because it's His death that paid that penalty for our sins.
As long as you continue to believe that you can "follow His example" and believe that you can be "good enough" in your attempts to do so, there is nothing but "bad news" for you on the horizon I'm sorry to say ..
Hebrews 10:27.
WE are the reason for the Incarnation and the Cross
, Em, the reason why both were necessary .. cf
2 Corinthians 5:21. He did it all for us because we are not (neither can we ever be) righteous enough to stand in God's presence, nor would we ever see "life" (because apart from the Cross, the only payment any of us can offer God for our sins is our own, eternal death).
This is why God "gave us" His Son
Yours in Christ,
David
"For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten
Son, that whosoever believes in Him should not
perish, but have everlasting life"
John 3:16