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Calvinism: Why is it so unpopular on CF?

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MrsGwaihir said:
Good Morning, Everyone. :wave: I am MrsGwaihir. I wanted to ask a question based on some things I have read here.

Are you folks indicating by some of your remarks, that a person cannot be a Christian and be Catholic?:scratch:

Please help me understand. Thanks!
Catholics are Christians who are in a false administration of the faith and sacraments. Saved people, wrong theology. The building does not a saint make; only the Lord.
 
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Neal said:
That's all, Catherineanne. No one's doubting your salvation, and you need not feel this way.

Class again... choir this time. Laaaa laa laa laaa laaaaaaa. Sing with me!

Happy to sing with you. :wave:

Suffice to say, yours is not the only way of presenting Calvinism. Others are robust to the point of rudeness and far beyond, even to gloating over what will happen to me when I stand before the Throne.

I have been told that my God will not save me. I have had someone gloating over what will happen to me when I stand before the Throne, and taking pleasure in the prospect of my ending up in a Lake of Fire.

It is this kind of attitude and animosity that I am object to, not any denomination per se.

However, I admit that this has made me short on tolerance as a result, and perhaps oversensitive on questions of damnation and salvation.
 
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Catherineanne said:
I have been told that my God will not save me. I have had someone gloating over what will happen to me when I stand before the Throne, and taking pleasure in the prospect of my ending up in a Lake of Fire.

It is this kind of attitude and animosity that I am object to, not any denomination per se.

So are we taking one person and generalizing to an entire group. Are there no gloating Anglicans to rile you up?

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Catherineanne said:
Happy to sing with you. :wave:

Suffice to say, yours is not the only way of presenting Calvinism. Others are robust to the point of rudeness and far beyond, even to gloating over what will happen to me when I stand before the Throne.

I have been told that my God will not save me. I have had someone gloating over what will happen to me when I stand before the Throne, and taking pleasure in the prospect of my ending up in a Lake of Fire.

It is this kind of attitude and animosity that I am object to, not any denomination per se.

However, I admit that this has made me short on tolerance as a result, and perhaps oversensitive on questions of damnation and salvation.

Catherine, has this happened here, in SR? Because there is only one "calvinist" i know of that sometimes posts in here that would dare say something of that sort to you, and everyone on this forum is in agreement that he is a hyper-calvinist, and wrong in his theology. He has even told us we are not saved because we accept that you don't have to agree with the doctrines of grace to be saved. We may believe it to be true, but it is the grace of God that saves, not doctrine.
 
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Imblessed said:
Catherine, has this happened here, in SR? Because there is only one "calvinist" i know of that sometimes posts in here that would dare say something of that sort to you, and everyone on this forum is in agreement that he is a hyper-calvinist, and wrong in his theology. He has even told us we are not saved because we accept that you don't have to agree with the doctrines of grace to be saved. We may believe it to be true, but it is the grace of God that saves, not doctrine.
Yeah, but he is fun to have around.
 
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Catherineanne said:
...I admit that this has made me short on tolerance as a result, and perhaps oversensitive on questions of damnation and salvation.

I know how you feel Catherineanne and it's hard to get past that oversensitivity.

I get a bit sensitive around some Christians for the same reason. This sort of bigotry can happen in all denominations.

I have Christians in my extended family who I secretly worry might hate me because of my Calvinist roots. While they're "loving" to me in most ways, if I happen to go to their church it's so obvious they exclude me from most things and they outright ignore me at times. I've also heard the pastor talking behind my back about how he can't get his "head around Presbyterians" LOL. And since it's such a charismatic church it makes me feel like they've damned me to hell.
 
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Catherineanne said:
Suffice to say, yours is not the only way of presenting Calvinism. Others are robust to the point of rudeness and far beyond, even to gloating over what will happen to me when I stand before the Throne.
As you've said before, certain things aren't unique to Calvinism. That's not unique to Calvinism, either.
Catherineanne said:
I have been told that my God will not save me. I have had someone gloating over what will happen to me when I stand before the Throne, and taking pleasure in the prospect of my ending up in a Lake of Fire.

It is this kind of attitude and animosity that I am object to, not any denomination per se.
True, and if you check among certain Pauline Dispensationalists posting on Reformed forum you'll find we're told exactly the same thing. Heck, I've been told this by some for certain sympathies with other ... Calvinists. If not Calvin himself. So that comes with the territory.

Frankly I find it very un-Calvinistic. Calvin's view of other churches directly contradicts that. He pointed out that a church that had serious problems was still a church in Paul's eyes (Calvin's Commentaries on 1 Corinthians 1:2). And Calvin's response to Luther's accusing him of heresy shows a very different tactic than returning the accusation.
I hear that Luther has at length published an atrocious invective, not so much against you as against us all. In these circumstances I can scarcely venture to ask for your silence; since it is unjust that the innocent should be thus attacked without having an opportunity to clear themselves; although it is at the same time difficult to decide whether that would be expedient.

But I hope you will remember in the first place how great a man Luther is, and in how many excellent endowments he excels; with what fortitude and constancy, with what dexterity and efficacious learning, he has hitherto applied himself, both to overthrow the kingdom of Antichrist, and to spread the doctrine of salvation. It is a frequent saying with me that, if Luther should even call me a devil, my veneration for him is notwithstanding so great that I shall ever acknowledge him to be an illustrious servant of God, who, though he abounds in extraordinary virtues, yet labors under great imperfections. I wish he would endeavor to restrain the violence with which he boils over on all occasions; and that he would always direct the vehemence which is natural to him against the enemies of truth, and not brandish it also against the servants of the Lord. I should be glad if he took more pains in searching out his own defects. Flatterers have done him much harm, especially as he is by nature too much inclined to self-indulgence; but it is our duty, whilst we reprehend what is bad in him, to make due allowance for his excellent qualities.

I beg therefore of you and your colleagues, in the first place to consider that you have to deal with a distinguished servant of Christ, to whom we are all much indebted; and in the next, that all you will obtain by a conflict will be to afford sport to the ungodly, and a triumph over ourselves as well as over the gospel; for if we indulge in mutual abuse, they will be but too ready to believe both sides.
Calvin, letter to Bullinger
Catherineanne said:
However, I admit that this has made me short on tolerance as a result, and perhaps oversensitive on questions of damnation and salvation.
When I'm in my right mind :sorry: I try to look at such attacks in two ways: 1, the response of Christ as my Defender is what I trust, not my own opinion of my destiny. His ability to keep me is much greater than my offense; and 2, but for God's grace they would be right. Our hope, both of us, lies in the Rock of Christ. And so will our salvation, our rescue, not in whatever ideas our minds hit on.

It almost seems to me American Christianity at least, has become a kind of Gnosis. "If you don't think like me, you're not saved." It's so common in all of Christianity today. I think in some cases it may serve as a comforting replacement for our trust in Jesus Christ alone.
 
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Imblessed said:
Catherine, has this happened here, in SR? Because there is only one "calvinist" i know of that sometimes posts in here that would dare say something of that sort to you, and everyone on this forum is in agreement that he is a hyper-calvinist, and wrong in his theology. He has even told us we are not saved because we accept that you don't have to agree with the doctrines of grace to be saved. We may believe it to be true, but it is the grace of God that saves, not doctrine.
Actually I do not believe there is an animal called a "hyper Calvinist " that posts on SR.

A hyper Calvinists only marker is they do not believe the gospel needs to be preached at all.


I consider myself a "hard nose" Calvinist , I am a Supralapsarian and hold fast to the doctrines of predestination and election and the sovereignty of God .


I do think no matter our doctrinal stand we need not to label others (Calvinists or non Calvinists). We should share our doctrine here and explain Calvinism. We should extend the same grace God has given to us and like each other .
 
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rnmomof7 said:
Actually I do not believe there is an animal called a "hyper Calvinist " that posts on SR.
To be honest, I believe this to be true. I think a better label for him would be neo-gnostic Calvinist.
 
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Imblessed said:
Yes, perhaps you are right, both of you, but I couldn't think of another name for him.

:wave:
You mean of all the names that crossed your mind, none of them seemed appropriate? ;)
 
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PreDamned said:
So then, this, according to the Biblical evidence you have presented (Romans 3:10-12) apparently means that even Calvinsists have never sought after God, neither done any Good......:wave:

The Calvinist could not seek after God if God did not first draw the Calvinist to Himself (John 6:44).
However, Romans 3:10-18 refers to all those under sin (ie unbelievers/non christians).
Rom 3:9 What then? are we better than they? No, in no wise: for we have before proved both Jews and Gentiles, that they are all under sin;
 
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PreDamned said:
So then, this, according to the Biblical evidence you have presented (Romans 3:10-12) apparently means that even Calvinsists have never sought after God, neither done any Good......:wave:

Prior to being regenerate (by God's grace and mercy through the Holy Spririt acting on them) no one seeks after God - no matter what their doctrinal beliefs. So, no - until God causes Calvinists to desire Him they don't seek after Him. As far as doing good - by whose standard? I recognize (as I believe does everyone at SR) that mankind does some wonderful things. However, God requires perfection and no man, save one - Jesus the Christ, has ever been able to meet that standard. We are allowed, again through God's grace and mercy, to be beneficiaries of Jesus' life and death and have His righteousness imputed to us.

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PreDamned said:
Did God come to you,....
Yes. But, to be a bit more precise, God overcame me.

PreDamned said:
^_^ I know for certain I am NOT amongst that elite group of people who have done so much good in their life time.

I personally have made a very sad contribution to society...:cry:
The prophet David was a mass murderer. That, too, is a sad contribution to his society. Yet he was called a man after God's own heart. He was an apple of His eye.

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Failure has been, adn alwasy will be my constant companion, clinging to my life, as a siamese twin, clinging like a tumorous infection, to my life, refusing to release me from his constant torment....:cry:
When a man reaches the point where he realizes that failure would be his only result of his own efforts at salvation, he is in the position of being able claim Christ for his own. My suggestion would be, instead of being like a moth to a big blue light, you leave this obsession with we Calvinists and look to the Lord.
 
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