Example? (from the non-hypers only, please.)
I have debated calvinists for a long time now. I have personal contact with several Calvinists in my social realm, and I have several years experience watching Christiandom around me and I have never observed any evanagelistic efforts by any reformed churches, be they Baptist or Presby or any other.
Indeed, of all the testimonies I have ever heard from men who hold Calvinistic views, and I have heard many, I can recall only one who testified that he was converted by the efforts of the reformed. All others come to faith though evangelistic efforts of others and then converted later to Calvinism. When they do this, they immediately begin using terminolgy like synergists and all the suspect terms without me having to call them out.
What was Spurgeon and Whitefield and Kerry famous for? Debate? Calvinism? Writing books? No! Evangelism. They were responsible for winning many souls only because they gave it much effort and preached the right gospel to the lost. That Jesus Christ died to save sinners and whosoever will may come and be saved. The crowd today does not do that for the most part.
Here is an end time scenario that fits perfectly with modern Calvinism.
2 Ti 4:1 I charge thee therefore before God, and the Lord Jesus Christ, who shall judge the quick and the dead at his appearing and his kingdom;
2 Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all longsuffering and doctrine.
3 For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears;
4 And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables.