This is child abuse you're talking about or alluding to. This thread, however, is about homosexuality. Stay on topic?
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I'm quite surprised to read this here. Many people from within Christianity say quite the opposite...
I'm not quite sure about this, though.
I'm rather convinced: Jesus is not a respecter of persons: Romans 2:11. In my interpretation, this means that every person has the same value to God meaning the beautiful are not more valuable than the not so beautiful.
Prosperity Gospel says that God loves people more if they look great/ don't have problems/ have had a good childhood/ have success and so on... I don't believe prosperity gospels. Jesus loves everyone! That's the Gospel as I see it.
Unfortunately who we are is wrapped up in sex. Sex is where we came from, it determines a lot of our behaviours, what we approve of, what we regard as good or bad behaviour.
In social interactions, our power, health, virility all look towards our potential as partners etc. How we look at a stranger, often first impact is the beauty or otherwise, which is all around a sexual identity. And in our interactions, deep emotional needs can often lead to inappropriate relationship or even aspirations, which are unhelpful.
This is such a prevalent theme the homosexual community felt they had to say they interacted as a community differently than the heterosexual community.
Now interactions between women tend to be relationship orientated or what is called agreeable and with men often becomes status or power centric, with facts or objectives being the goal.
Into this mix comes homosexuality, which does not quite fit, or so they feel. And sexual attraction is also linked to psychological development of identification with ones mother, to a more mature distant view where we are our genders role with the opposite gender as our partner. Some have asked whether homosexuality is a failure in this development process, which often develops with testosterone in teenage years. Some female athletes from Russia where given testosterone in their gymnastic competitions as youngsters, to the extent some have chosen to become male, as it affected them so dramatically.
My view is this is a complex interaction of genetic variation, hormones, social pressures and trauma, which end up with homosexual tendencies as well as to over active sexual addictions of many sorts.
Jesus calls us to love, to knowing emotional freedom and identity above these issues. Intimacy is not bounded by sexual closeness, rather sexual closeness probably is a distraction. I have seen too many examples where sexual interaction leads to emotional turmoil and the opposite of closeness.
So for me homosexuality is a distraction from true love and intimacy. God bless you