Just to clarify...
It is an actual event and I live in California.
I am a Catholic, but stopped going to church due to the "progressive" theology preached by the priests that are apparently against the Vatican.
It still kind of troubles as since I am apparently a " Christo-fascist pig who used theology to justify hate, intolerence, and homophobic ideals"
That was obvious people were thinking that and you probably had clashes and heard such sour words from your post. (I doubt you would have even entertained such thoughts if it were not for people telling you such things.)
I have left churches where there is "progressive" theology [or other rotten theology]. It should be noted that "progressive" ideology is actually tied into fascism and modern Communism. It is distinctly secular in design and comes from the secular movement of the nineteenth century... a natural offshoot from Darwinistic, Nietzchean, Marxist thought...
They started taking up the mantle of being "liberal" in the forties. (This form of "liberalism" is anything but.)
In the time of Woodrow Wilson (who brought about the Sedition and Alien Acts of WWI), there were some dim ties to Christianity, claims to it... but today it is largely an anti-God philosophy.
My guess would be someone in your household actually broke it.
This isn't to many any "progressive" is sure damned, but on the further reaches of the left this sort of thinking is definitely fascist, lockstep.
Hence, they are projecting their own sins to you.
Slanderers always are guilty of the very sins they project onto others... in one form or another. This is why the Law says the false witness should receive the punishment they were seeking for others.