That's another question I will decide refraining from at this time.
It is a difficult position which have so many different opinons, and I can understand both sides. Though everything is more based out from what motives we have in mind, which is always most important to God, the motive of our hearts!
I trust more understanding and clarity will be given to me in Him as I keep on getting stronger rooted in His Word as well as growing closer to Him! The same I say goes for you too!
God keep on blessing you and your wife richly, in Christ Jesus's Name, Amen!