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Baptism and babies

Justin-H.S.

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People were not redeemed by involvement in the Red Sea Crossing, look at Dathan and company, who the earth later swallowed up.

They were saved from the Egyptians (the world) weren't they? Don't know about you, but I still struggle with sin even after my baptism. Why would Paul be running a race if he won by simply crossing the starting line (baptism)?

I've seen people choose to be baptized and later fall away.

In the OT, the convenant was by birth to Jewish parents, in the NT, it is by faith in Christ.

No argument there. That's why my 4 month old infant will be baptized next month. He will be raised in the faith.
 
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At the bottom of all of this there is a fundamental disagreement, not over age alone or giving consent or any of that.

It is, rather, that the historic churches consider the sacraments to be something that God does for us, while a minority of churches of more recent origin think the sacraments (called by them "ordinances") are ceremonies we do for God (as though that's what he really needs from us).
 
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At the bottom of all of this there is a fundamental disagreement, not over age alone or giving consent or any of that.

It is, rather, that the historic churches consider the sacraments to be something that God does for us, while a minority of churches of more recent origin think the sacraments (called by them "ordinances") are ceremonies we do for God (as though that's what he really needs from us).

Unintentionally turning them into "works of the law."

Patriarch Jeremiah of Constantinople said:
But since you are content with some of the sacraments, even though you have dangerously distorted and changed the written teachings of the Old and New (Testament) to your own purpose, you further say that some of them are not sacraments, but only traditions, not having been established in Holy [scriptural] Texts. But you oppose them in every way, just as chrismation, which was accepted even by Saint John Chrysostom. Some others you drag along as does a torrent. And then you call yourself theologians!...

...Therefore, we request that from henceforth you do not cause us more grief, nor write to us on the same subject if you should wish to treat these luminaries and theologians of the Church in a different manner. You honor and exalt them in words, but you reject them in deeds. For you try to prove our weapons which are their holy and divine discourses as unsuitable. And it is with these documents that we would have to write and contradict you. Thus, as for you, please release us from these cares. Therefore, going about your own ways, write no longer concerning dogmas; but if you do, write only for friendship's sake. Farewell.

Issued in the year 1581, June 6
Protonotarios Theodosios
 
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So what? Households can and do include infants. I don't even see the relevance of your quoting current USA statistics when they have nothing in common with 1st century Palestine.

It is a stretch to assume this even then on so important a topic.
 
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At the bottom of all of this there is a fundamental disagreement, not over age alone or giving consent or any of that.

It is, rather, that the historic churches consider the sacraments to be something that God does for us, while a minority of churches of more recent origin think the sacraments (called by them "ordinances") are ceremonies we do for God (as though that's what he really needs from us).

I disagree with this characterization. God does for us when we believe, and are baptized. I don't see God doing something (redemption) to someone who isn't giving their assent, whatever the 'sponsor' may think. God has no grandchildren.
 
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The POV of those Protestant churches that do not permit infants to be baptized also does not permit the baptism of children of older years as well, at least up to Middle School years and, depending on the congregation, even older.

I can't speak for them, but not the case at my church.

No claim that says most households today do not include infants really addresses the "divide" here. The question actually is "How many do not have small children?" And as you, Prodromos, correctly pointed out, the stats for the USA today are not at all comparable to the peoples of the Eastern Mediterranean in the first or second centuries AD (or at present, for that matter)!

Pick any point in history you want, there was never a point where every household had infants. Even one that had four kids for example, at 70 years of age there was a very brief time in their lives that they had infants. Lydia for example, was a prosperous businesswoman, probably not a 20-year old mother, just as a 20 year old mother today probably isn't also running a successful business. The Bible doesn't even say Lydia was married, there is no mention of a husband.
 
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what assumption is being made?

That when a household was said to be baptized, that it included infants. Several of these passages say first the Gospel was preached and they believed, which precludes infants.

Jesus said in Mark 16:16 that "He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved." Why do you want to reverse that order? How would you respond to the question, "What must I do to be saved?"
 
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I disagree with this characterization.
If you wish. It doesn't change anything.

God does for us when we believe, and are baptized.
We already know that this is your POV. It was noted earlier. And I have already mentioned that it is believed by a minority of Christian churches of recent origin.

I don't see God doing something (redemption) to someone who isn't giving their assent, whatever the 'sponsor' may think.
As I was saying....
 
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Pick any point in history you want, there was never a point where every household had infants. Even one that had four kids for example, at 70 years of age there was a very brief time in their lives that they had infants. Lydia for example, was a prosperous businesswoman, probably not a 20-year old mother, just as a 20 year old mother today probably isn't also running a successful business. The Bible doesn't even say Lydia was married, there is no mention of a husband.

the Bible also never says Lazarus was circumcised. just because the Bible is silent on something doesn't mean that it didn't happen.
 
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Jesus said in Mark 16:16 that "He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved." Why do you want to reverse that order? How would you respond to the question, "What must I do to be saved?"

None of us is reversing anything! When asked a question by an adult, Christ answered him by telling him what it would take for him to be saved.

It's you who say we must apply that advice to all humans under all circumstances, but that is not what the conversation that the Bible records here does.
 
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That when a household was said to be baptized, that it included infants. Several of these passages say first the Gospel was preached and they believed, which precludes infants.

Jesus said in Mark 16:16 that "He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved." Why do you want to reverse that order? How would you respond to the question, "What must I do to be saved?"

how does it preclude infants? it only reverses the order if we define belief as only a mental process. we don't.
 
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I can't speak for them, but not the case at my church.
Has your Church baptized anyone under the age of nine?
Pick any point in history you want, there was never a point where every household had infants.
That is as irrelevant now as it was the first time you brought up this point. It has never been our contention that EVERY household includes infants, only that households can and do include infants. Your man made tradition is that NO household includes infants, because you implicitly deny that infants might be included in your interpretation of Acts 16:31. Were Paul and Silas introduced to the jailer's family before they were incarcerated? When Paul declared to the jailer that he would be saved, he AND his household, if HE believed in the Lord Jesus, it was a fact then as it is now that households can and do include infants. Paul knew that and yet he didn't make his statement conditional as you do with your man made tradition.
Does your Church also exclude the mentally disabled from baptism?
 
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None of us is reversing anything! When asked a question by an adult, Christ answered him by telling him what it would take for him to be saved.

It's you who say we must apply that advice to all humans under all circumstances, but that is not what the conversation that the Bible records here does.

And how would Jesus have a conversation with an infant?

I don't believe baptising an infant saves that person, or makes him born again. You want to call it a dedication, fine. I don't think an unbaptised infant goes to hell, just as I don't think the millions of aborted children are in hell. David said he would see his deceased infant son again.
 
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how does it preclude infants? it only reverses the order if we define belief as only a mental process. we don't.

So how exactly does an infant fulfill this definition of belief: "An acceptance that a statement is true or that something exists."
 
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Has your Church baptized anyone under the age of nine?

I don't know exactly, and why nine?

That is as irrelevant now as it was the first time you brought up this point. It has never been our contention that EVERY household includes infants, only that households can and do include infants.

And most do not.

Your man made tradition

Pot, meet kettle.

is that NO household includes infants,

Straw man, I never said that, I said most do not, making the assumption that infants were baptized in the NT a shaky one.

because you implicitly deny that infants might be included in your interpretation of Acts 16:31. Were Paul and Silas introduced to the jailer's family before they were incarcerated? When Paul declared to the jailer that he would be saved, he AND his household, if HE believed in the Lord Jesus, it was a fact then as it is now that households can and do include infants. Paul knew that and yet he didn't make his statement conditional as you do with your man made tradition.
Does your Church also exclude the mentally disabled from baptism?

I don't know, why?

A good summary of my position from another forum I'm on:

"There are five cases of household baptism recorded in the New Testament.

1. Cornelius' Household (Acts 10)
2. Lydia's Household (Acts 16)
3. The Philippian Jailer's Household (Acts 16)
4. Crispus’ Household (Acts 18)
5. Stephanas’ Household (1 Corinthians 1)

In each case, however, there are additional factors mentioned which seem to discourage the idea that infants are in view in these particular uses of oikos.

1. Acts 10:2 provides direct context for the upcoming events, by informing the reader that those of Cornelius’ household—at least those being referred to—were devout, active, God-fearing people. It’s also stated that the subjects of Peter’s command to be baptized (v.48) had all heard his Gospel message (v.44), and had then received the gift of the Holy Spirit (v.47). These same people are also said to have previously engaged in speaking in tongues and audibly praising God (v.46).

2. Many commentators note that the circumstantial details given concerning Lydia (e.g. she appears to have been a traveling businesswomen) suggest she was probably an unmarried woman. As such this particular household likely wouldn’t have had very young children in it, but rather would seem to be comprised of her and most likely, considering ancient Mediterranean cultural norms, some fellow women business associates. Supporting this notion is that Luke exclusively references women as being at the riverbank (Acts 16:13), and then clearly implies that Lydia and those comprising her household were baptized there.

3. We again find the hearing of the gospel being attributed to all of the subjects involved in this account (Acts 16:32). It is sometimes pointed out that the only description of personal faith actually having been exercised is individually connected to the jailor (v. 34), as the ESV and some other translations convey. Without getting too technical, this is due to the fact that the form of the Greek word for “believe” here (pisteuo), is in the singular and masculine form (pepisteukos). Some then insist that this fact, combined with the knowledge that his family was indeed also baptized, proves that infants (and apparently others) can and should be baptized by virtue of a head-of-household coming to faith.

However, such a stringent interpretation seems to go beyond what is actually stated, exegetically demanded, or even contextually suggested. Even while only the jailor’s faith is specifically mentioned, in order to be taken as some peadobaptists do, the following improbable points would necessarily follow: 1) The whole household heard Paul’s salvation message. 2) The jailer believed the gospel, but the rest of the household didn’t. 3) They were all baptized anyway, regardless of whether they were infants, adolescents, or other adults. 4) The entire family was overcome with joy that only the head-of-household had believed and acted upon a message that the rest either weren’t capable of comprehending, or had willfully ignored or rejected.

Thus it seems more reasonable, to me, to think that while the jailer’s personal salvation may indeed have been the object of the household’s joy most specifically being referenced, this could very well be on account of his instrumental role in the rest of the family then also being introduced to the gospel as well. (Or maybe, given the nature of his occupation, the jailor had been a “rough” individual, and the family realized that through his conversion he was a changed person..?) Notably, a number of literal translations do prefer the household conversion perspective, such as the NASB, where verse 34 reads: “And he brought them into his house and set food before them, and rejoiced greatly, having believed in God with his whole household.” (See also NKJV.)

4. Acts 18:8 simply states that Crispus’ household believed, as was the case with other Corinthians who were then baptized.

5. Outside those related in Acts, the Apostle Paul makes the only other mention of household baptism in the New Testament (1 Cor. 1:16). We again get a more complete picture when we put all of the relevant information together, whereby we learn that the members of this household were the first “converts” in Achaia, who were active in serving the saints (1 Cor. 16:15). It also seems likely that Stephanas’ household may have been among the “believers” whom Luke refers to alongside Crispus’ household in Acts 18:8, in that Corinth was the capital city of the Roman province of Achaia.

In conclusion, from contextual information found in all of these household passages it seems that only those old enough to comprehend, receive, and experience the transforming effects of the gospel are specifically being talked about. (I also find it at least notable in this regard that in Acts 8:12 Luke only specifies that baptism was given to men and women, while infants are not mentioned.)

Again, I realize that there are other substantial and arguably weightier issues involved in the Reformed justification of infant baptism. But these household passages are in fact frequently invoked as comprising very strong support for infant baptism. For myself, I have had to agree with the conclusion of this writer on the matter:

George Beasley-Murray (1916–2000; English Baptist):
“Luke, in writing these narratives, does not have in view infant members of the families. His language cannot be pressed to extend to them. He has in mind ordinary believers and uses language only applicable to them. Abuse of it leads to the degradation of Scripture.”
(Baptism in the New Testament, 315)"
 
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the Bible also never says Lazarus was circumcised. just because the Bible is silent on something doesn't mean that it didn't happen.

Which is how the RCC comes up with such bizarre doctrines as they do regarding Mary, purgatory, etc.
 
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So how exactly does an infant fulfill this definition of belief: "An acceptance that a statement is true or that something exists."

where does that definition insist that it's solely a mental exercise?
 
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We already know that this is your POV. It was noted earlier. And I have already mentioned that it is believed by a minority of Christian churches of recent origin.

And by the NT church. The Pharisees had many traditions that Jesus condemned as being against Scripture.

Please answer my question, how would you answer the question, "What must I do to be saved?"
 
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