I had met this woman at a Christian singles event that was scheduled via Facebook...and me, her and a few other people I had gotten to know over the course of the evening. I feel I actually connected with quite a few people as we had a fun time during out fellowship.
I did kind of take a liking to a particular lady as her personality really got my attention. We took some photos and when I went to add her as a friend on Facebook, I had noticed that she had "in a relationship" on her profile.
This was a first for me, as she wasn't involved with anyone from the church...she came stag, by herself w/o her boyfriend, which I found odd. Every person I have ever known that was involved with someone....was always out with their sig. other on a Sat. night and not around a bunch of unattached men, right?
I spoke with the lead person of the group about this as me and him have a history.
He said, "Well, she is single..as not being married...so she just probably would appreciate the fellowship and friendship of other singles. The group isn't really about dating, but about making friends and fellowship."
I GUESS I get what he means, but still...every singles group I had ever been in, once someone got involved they at least brought their sig. other with them or they'd not be with us but spending time with their b/f or g/f.
When I had gotten to know her, she never mentioned her boyfriend when I was getting to know her.
I mean, it's just a first for me to have come across this in a singles group. I mean, she could be in a long dist. thing with him *shrug*. Who knows. But if I were her b/f, I don't think I'd even like her doing this as it may give other likely unattached single men the wrong idea, yes? no?
I did kind of take a liking to a particular lady as her personality really got my attention. We took some photos and when I went to add her as a friend on Facebook, I had noticed that she had "in a relationship" on her profile.
This was a first for me, as she wasn't involved with anyone from the church...she came stag, by herself w/o her boyfriend, which I found odd. Every person I have ever known that was involved with someone....was always out with their sig. other on a Sat. night and not around a bunch of unattached men, right?
I spoke with the lead person of the group about this as me and him have a history.
He said, "Well, she is single..as not being married...so she just probably would appreciate the fellowship and friendship of other singles. The group isn't really about dating, but about making friends and fellowship."
I GUESS I get what he means, but still...every singles group I had ever been in, once someone got involved they at least brought their sig. other with them or they'd not be with us but spending time with their b/f or g/f.
When I had gotten to know her, she never mentioned her boyfriend when I was getting to know her.
I mean, it's just a first for me to have come across this in a singles group. I mean, she could be in a long dist. thing with him *shrug*. Who knows. But if I were her b/f, I don't think I'd even like her doing this as it may give other likely unattached single men the wrong idea, yes? no?