Really. Now I want you to test that out. I want you to go up to someone on the street and try to force them to love you. Let me know how that works out
Children love their fathers because of the relationship with him. If you have not accepted Jesus Christ as Lord and savior, then you are not His child.
The Bible says in John 8:44
You are of your father the devil, and the desires of your father you want to do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own resources, for he is a liar and the father of it.
God doesn't send His children to hell. He lets those who are not His children---the ones who reject Him as Lord and Savior---of their own free will go to hell because they CHOOSE to reject Him.
But if you're awake , there is still time for you to accept His gift. That may not be true later.
 
There is nothing for me to work out. I trust God. If He says there is a hell, and He does, then there is. 
 
Then you're obviously not free.