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The answer to your question is related specifically to an individuals psychological need. We all have unique psychological needs and with some, believing that someone is looking out for them and that there is a paradise after death, is a comfort they need personally. Nothing wrong with it and it does not mean they are psychologically weak.
 
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Too true. A friend of mine is a super nice guy, but I found him in an on-line forum a few years ago being very negative toward believers. I never let him know I saw his posts.
That has also been my experience with non-Christians and even other religons.


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Based on some of what you said, there was something another noted best that would probably answer some of your thoughts on the issue of how one can be atheist and yet reflective of something else as well....going in line with the thought that there are many differing types of atheists....

And there is more to religion than belief in God. For Religion is text, tradition, ritual, moral teaching, culture, and community plus (usually) belief in one or more deities - or lack, thereof, of beliefs in gods/deities....

And atheism can qualify:


As said there, for a brief excerpt:

Religion by definition is ‘a set of beliefs concerning the cause, nature, and purpose of the universe.’ ‘Something one believes in and follows devotedly; a point or matter of ethics or conscience.’



Atheism is defined by religion, but it is not the opposite of religion. Technically, as it concerns forms of belief, everyone is born atheist, just as everyone is born human. Some people end up developing into religions that go opposite of religions that are expressions of atheism (lack of belief in gods or goddesses and divine beings) whereas others go into religions that ZEALOUSLY feel lack of belief in gods/goddesses is to be affirmed in life (atheism in expression) - and some are atheists in the beginning sense that they don't know what they believe at all.

It is kind of like humans and hats, as all humans are born without hats, just as all humans are born without religion. ...and some humans have hats put on their heads pretty soon after birth, but they are not born that way. But if you came into a point of life where you chose to make wearing hats an official way others were supposed to live, then you'd be a part of an official system of thought that's a religion - while going on the opposite end of the spectrum with dogmatism would mean you chose a religion just as much....but you all began at some point with having a belief in nothing - which at some level is where everyone starts in life. With the religious forms of atheism, we can see this in 1940, Congress attempted to define religion in a provision exempting certain individuals from the Draft (Selective Service Act, 1948) - exempting military service from anyone who felt that to do such would conflict with their religious belief...but the Court later expanded the meaning of the term "religion" in the Draft Law to include "non-religious belief".. ... This broadened definition has been applied in other free exercise clause cases as well (Torcaso v. Watkins 495; Pfeffer 1967, 608-609). Even atheism and agnosticism are now "religious" beliefs under this view of the free exercise clause of the First Amendment .




Being an atheist does not mean "If a religion says X then I should believe the opposite." For just because a religion says something doesn't mean that an atheist must automatically believe the opposite - nor does it mean that because an atheist believes differently means that atheism is not a religion, seeing how there are already groups of atheists who organize together and dogmatically claim god/gods and divine beings cannot exist and claim to know more than other - and when they try to enforce those beliefs in certain sectors, they fulfill the definitions of being a religion. In many respects, Atheism is not the opposite of religion, siince there are atheist religions such as Buddhism and atheist religious cults such as Raelianism and mock religions too such ..


So it's possible to be an atheist who hasn't chosen a religious system - but it's also the case that atheism can be/has been seen as a religion the moment things become dogmatic (on the belief of gods/goddesses not being real) and there's fighting against others systematically and organizing against those who feel different. Secular Humanism being an example of that..
 
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Sometimes true but not always the case. I was fine being an atheist at one time and agnostic at other times. I actually preferred not believing in paradise after death or that someone was looking after me, but alas, it was not to be....when the Holy Spirit fell upon me as i sat by myself, what i wanted was no longer the reality.
 
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Sure, you can't toss everyone in the same boat, because psychological needs are unique and can change over a persons lifetime. Hence, some people go from non-believer to believer and some go from believer to non-believer, with that latter, being more common these days.
 
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I think what's most common these days is someone going from believer to non-believer to a believer again only way different than before.

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I think what's most common these days is someone going from believer to non-believer to a believer again only way different than before.

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If by going back to a believer you mean a believer in a personal God, the studies would not support that, for the last several decades. I would agree, some who go from believer to non-believer may end up latching onto some type of spirituality, but more people are trending away from belief in a God, than the opposite.
 
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One reason is because quite a few of these people have personal experiences of a spiritual nature that are convincing to them. They know that telling a skeptic of their experience/s won't convince that person of anything.
 
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One reason is because quite a few of these people have personal experiences of a spiritual nature that are convincing to them. They know that telling a skeptic of their experience/s won't convince that person of anything.

Yes. I came to the Lord as an adult. My parents were not really Christians. Personal experience is what brought me around to believing. I didnt want to but really had no choice if I wanted to be spiritually honest with myself. The blessings since have been extraordinary.
 
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One reason is because quite a few of these people have personal experiences of a spiritual nature that are convincing to them. They know that telling a skeptic of their experience/s won't convince that person of anything.

I can understand why a believer might not want to share the details, but I think believers should at least provide an overview of their evidence. For example, they can say "I heard a voice 3 times, I saw an apparition 2 times, I felt very inspired in church 6 times, I overcame hatred for some person, I experienced 4 synchronicities, ...".

At least that gives people an idea of the believer's motivations. Otherwise it seems like they are believing simply because they like to believe.
 
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And- being told anything of this nature by someone would be convincing to you? Forgive me for feeling doubtful on that. Usually people justify it as being a nice story but all in the believer's head, and then will go on to express the sentiment that as long as they're getting something good out of their faith, then it is mostly alright. Knowing their motivations would likely change nothing for you.
 
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Really now? Who is Christianity's Deadliest Enemy?
http://www.christianforums.com/t7820614/

I don't make a habit of relying on forum threads as the determining, foundational factors that form the basis of my theology.

According to St. Paul the "final enemy", man's most virulent opponent, is in fact death. Mortality, the cessation of existence, entropy, etc. Overcome in and by resurrection.

Atheists aren't my enemy.
I wouldn't even classify atheism as my enemy.

Other Christians may and do think differently. Well that's them, not me. My interest isn't to engage in a pointless, artificially constructed "culture war" with Christian "good guys" and non-Christian "bad guys" duking it out because we need some sort of societal champion, or ruling ideology to govern our civilization. I really couldn't give a rat's fart whether or not "In God we trust" is on the coins I use to buy those 50 cent "Whoa!" stickers at the grocery store.

-CryptoLutheran
 
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I purposely wrote "way different than before" because when folks come back to the Divine experience, for them the image of God or the Divine is not at all as it was before. I'm a perfect example. God to me now is more of a Panentheist experience and my life is way more spiritual and a lot different than before. And when I look at it, I see that my old mental concepts of God, and even the word "God" in a lot of ways don't work for me any more. Yet, I'd say that I'm a believer because today I'm fully aware of a cosmic wide Divine expression with in life itSelf that is so much greater than myself. And I know that I'm not alone in this.

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I'd be very interested to hear more about the blessings you've been experiencing!
 
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Gxg (G²);65624651 said:
Seeing that other alternatives listed were other relgions who did not believe in gods/God
Meaning you weren't telling the truth when you claimed that the only choices for atheists were humanism or nihilism.

Not sure why this subject is so important to you that you need to spread falsehoods like this. But I do know that it isn't worth my time discussing this with someone who is just going to make stuff up.
 
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Meaning you weren't telling the truth when you claimed that the only choices for atheists were humanism or nihilism.
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If/when you're going to try conflating two DIFFERENT conversations as if they were the same point, then you're mixing categories willfully. No need trying to switch goal posts on the matter...

Seeing that the context of discussion was on what the Supreme COURT listed as alternatives (as that was what was asked on), it is already evidedent you were willing to attempt another falsehood for the sake of argument. For Secular Humanism WAS a part of the alternatives listed - but as it concerns the options outside of that which atheists turn to if there was no other thing but Secular Humanism and nothing in life really mattered/had any basis, nihilism is the natural choice - and that is something which has been noted a lot before when it comes to dogmatic atheists taking things to their logical conclusion of no one able to know a divine reality or prove Divine Law - while others insisted in saying humanity has value/we live in a materialistic world (as goes the religious philosophy of Secular Humanism). As said previously:
The only alternative to secular humansim - that has little to do with saying there are no other religious alternatives. The context is secular humanism (or other humanisms) and what they seek to do when it comes to life having no meaning outside of giving a system of thought to live by. This is no different than talking on "The only alternative to Christianity is Deism" when the context is discussing whether or not God's personal and seeing that Christianity shows Christ as personal but other systems of God existing (as with Deism ) do not......and it'd be foolish for anyone to jump in saying "But there are lots of alternatives to Christianity - Hinduism, Buddhism, Islam, etc. - so you lied!!!! when there was context/nuance.

Likewise, the point you tried to wrangle over (with nihilism being the only alternative to secular humanism or any other humanism ) was noted within the context of humanism being the main option and nothing else being present. It was not dismissing what was already said when it comes to atheists already reflecting religious systems that do not believe in gods/goddesses or a Deity (Buddhism, Taoism, Pantheism, Unitarian Universalism, etc.) - as that was already noted before.

And nothing said there at ANY point went past the bottom line of what was being noted when saying that Secular Humanism is the default for most athests when it comes to the system in which their beliefs are best expressed - and outside of Secular Humanism giving framework of belief, the other options would be Nihilism...that nothing matters - for anytime atheists speak of morality/desire to treat others fairly and say man has value, it is a Secular Humanism mindset that is reflected since 100% atheism is lack of belief in anything...and no atheists wants that.

Outside of Secular Humanism and other humanisms, there are other religious systems which are protected under the Supreme Court even though they don't believe in gods/goddesses or deities - that was and has ALWAYS been the context wAnd that is consistent with what the Supreme Court already said when it came to promoting the ideas of an atheists who protested - and noting that one of the systems that are in existence which don't believe in God/gods or goddesses and yet are religions (just as many see atheism to be a religion). That was already addressed earlier as seen here:
Context -and you need to do better at paying attention to it before speaking since it's obvious you weren't sticking to the truth when it was already noted from the first posting onward that there were other religions defining atheism which atheists held to (i.e. pantheism being a basic among others) - and if you willfully avoided that, you have little room to speak about truth-telling.

Not sure why this subject is so important to you that you need to spread falsehoods like this. But I do know that it isn't worth my time discussing this with someone who is just going to make stuff up
Unless anyone asked you "Do you feel it's worth your time?", it's an emotional response to even bring that up as if that was a factor in others addressing you.

As it stands, you already did falsehood a number of times (from claiming Quakers in other camps weren't militant to claiming atheism was the lack of belief in gods/goddesses and backtracking from that ...several other things beside that as well). All of that is a pity that it couldn't be avoided since other atheists have not resorted to doing so....but you already avoided repeatedly what other atheists/atheists groups have said - and woefully dealt with it, so it's not really a concern what you do or don't do with your time. The focus is the facts - which you avoided - and for all the talk of "I do know that it isn't worth my time discussing this..", the irony is thatfor no one was seeking to SPEAK to you originally. For you and you alone were the one who felt it so important to focus on what another (myself ) said to someone else (starting in #44 /#50) - and you chose to keep responding after that, even though most of what you claimed had nothing to do with what was actually said..

Thus, it'd be appropriate for one to ask "Why is the subject so important to you that you seem obsessed with others disagreeing with you ...?". But it's not worth having a meltdown over when you can't stay consistent with what you claim.
 
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I agree that most people reflexively dismiss the validity of another person's spiritual experience even though the same experience might seem very convincing in the first person. People consider themselves very rational but they can assume other people are easily fooled by coincidences, emotion, and imagination.

But without this information how does religion look to an unbeliever? I'm sure there are a variety of motivations for believing:
- God unexpectedly interacting with world (answers to prayer, synchronicities, ...)
- Holy spirit experiences (in church, during prayer, ...)
- self improvement (overcoming substance abuse, improving marriage, ...)
- enjoyment of rituals (prayer, liturgy, ...)
- fellowship with people
- intellectual interest (theology, religious history, ...)

On this forum people only talk about the last item (theology, religious history, ...).
I wish they would talk about the other items more. Otherwise atheists can be forgiven for thinking religious people are simply afraid to face facts and give up the security blanket of religion.
 
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God to me now is more of a Panentheist experience and my life is way more spiritual and a lot different than before. .
Panentheism is a very beautiful way of expression - and something that makes the most sense (IMHO) to express belief from a Theistic point of view when it comes to God. Some of this was discussed elsewhere - as seen here:

 
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Usually people justify it as being a nice story but all in the believer's head, and then will go on to express the sentiment that as long as they're getting something good out of their faith, then it is mostly alright.
It seems the same dynamic goes in reverse as well - a lot of times it seems many atheists will not want to explain why they felt the way they did on why God/theism did not work for them...the response being "It didn't make sense" and other similar things.
 
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Gxg (G²);65632144 said:
Panentheism is a very beautiful way of expression - and something that makes the most sense (IMHO) to express belief from a Theistic point of view when it comes to God....

Heck, Pantheism might even make more sense than Deism in some contexts.
 
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